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Are you actually broken up? Are you anticipating letting him back in?
I wanted to specify that we have already broke up... like I didn’t see the texts (again) and ignore it.
He’s just still reaching out with all his drama... but he’s never been the one to ever provide me any answers for anything. He kept that part of him (that she knows) away from me.
I wanted to specify that we have already broke up... like I didn’t see the texts (again) and ignore it.
He’s just still reaching out with all his drama... but he’s never been the one to ever provide me any answers for anything. He kept that part of him (that she knows) away from me.
I’m guessing his behavior is long term that he wouldn’t ever stop or change?
I’m done. I’ve already done so much damage to myself that will take me years to reverse, and I doubt I’ll ever heal from this. I’m not feeling like the victim, I had a chance to walk away. I’m just stating facts.
I’m guessing his behavior is long term that he wouldn’t ever stop or change?
No, but your behavior hasn't changed either, soooo ...
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Originally Posted by CaramelBeach
I’m done. I’ve already done so much damage to myself that will take me years to reverse, and I doubt I’ll ever heal from this. I’m not feeling like the victim, I had a chance to walk away. I’m just stating facts.
Because you are an immediate and steady supply of companionship, affirmation and sex. And he's kind of a hot mess.
Why in the world did you move in together after only a few months????
i dont see anything wrong with this.
the questions for the two adults are:
is he comfortable being in a relationship when he still also has feelings for the ex ?
is she comfortable being in a relationship with someone who still also has feelings for the ex ?
i dont see anything wrong with this.
the questions for the two adults are:
is he comfortable being in a relationship when he still also has feelings for the ex ?
is she comfortable being in a relationship with someone who still also has feelings for the ex ?
didnt read any other responses, so here goes! you're probably his rebound and he still pines for her and given the chance he will make beautiful makeup sex with her. not given the chance, he will settle with you. up to you if this is acceptable to you. if you confront him, he will likely just become more secretive in his behavior and hide it from you
I’m sorry, as I explained on one of my last posts I’ve aspergers, what sounds like denial is mostly my confusion understanding how people act. I don’t like telling people this because it can’t help but embarrass me. I don’t have an easy time in social situations. I can’t tell when someone is happy with me or sad with me, especially online when I can’t hear their tone.
sorry if this comes off as mean; but, how were you diagnosed with aspbergers ? it not a real psychological affliction. are you sure its not acute autism spectrum disorder.
i assume you are self-diagnosed. i have friends who claim to have o.c.d. as an excuse for acting a little nutty but theyve never interviewed with a psychiatrist.
sorry if this comes off as mean; but, how were you diagnosed with aspbergers ? it not a real psychological affliction. are you sure its not acute autism spectrum disorder.
i assume you are self-diagnosed. i have friends who claim to have o.c.d. as an excuse for acting a little nutty but theyve never interviewed with a psychiatrist.
Please don’t bring my condition into this, I know it plays a part but I don’t want to discuss it online. I did not self diagnose.
I do believe he does love me though?
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