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Old 09-30-2019, 02:53 PM
 
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It's interesting how so many people are responding like they know THIS person; the subject of this thread. So what's his name, and where does he live, oh experts?
Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.
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Old 09-30-2019, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Boston
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has he asked you to stop by and pick up some carryout on the way over?
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Old 09-30-2019, 02:57 PM
 
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Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.
Wise move.
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Old 09-30-2019, 03:01 PM
 
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This. Or possibly sexual assaulting a woman. Rapists have the goal of getting a woman alone.
Of course, because every man is a potential rapist. As usual, feminists have zero respect for men...
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Old 09-30-2019, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Mr. Roger's Neighborhood
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Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.
His name, place of residence, and place of employment are irrelevant to your original post.

What *is* relevant is that he not only lacks creativity when it comes to dates (a real date need not be expensive), he seems to be financially irresponsible for a man of his age (guessing that he's at least thirty? A man of his age should be able to offer more than "hanging out" as a second date), tells falsehoods (most places these days do direct deposit rather than issue physical paychecks--especially corporate entities. As a result, unless there is a glitch in the system, late paychecks are a rarity), and has a hair-trigger temper.

To my way of thinking, a man who doesn't trust a woman's instincts to protect herself by not potentially deliberately putting herself in a vulnerable position with a relative stranger is not a man who either likes or respects women.

Thank goodness you didn't find yourself alone with him before he revealed his true nature.
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Old 09-30-2019, 03:10 PM
 
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What *is* relevant is that he not only lacks creativity when it comes to dates (a real date need not be expensive), he seems to be financially irresponsible for a man of his age (guessing that he's at least thirty?), .
He is 35. Drives a new car so I'm guessing he is tied up with monthly car payments and it's a strain on his budget. Or some other pressing financial problem that's going on. I'm not going to ever find out at this point.
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Old 09-30-2019, 03:12 PM
 
Location: (six-cent-dix-sept)
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Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.
this is legitimately scary.
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Old 09-30-2019, 03:12 PM
 
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Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.

Glad you cancelled it. If he really works at a Fortune 500 company it is extremely unlikely that they were late with the paycheck. It sounds like you dodged a bullet.

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Old 09-30-2019, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.
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No, I always talking about everyone else, who are responding as though they know this guy, and knowing his thoughts and intentions. Anyway, it sounds like we've moved on...
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Old 09-30-2019, 03:19 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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And a can of Pringle’s (BBQ) to SEAL THE DEAL!
Hhhmmmm.......what flavor?
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