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Old 09-09-2021, 06:07 PM
 
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You need to put an end to homeboy with the vagina and pulse only criteria and nip it in the bud. Be a bit rude if you have to.

I'd also suggest telling the other guy that his friend is the crossing line. I'd never pull anything like that on a friend of mine. Some people who flirt a lot use that as a cover. They throw out some meat and see what bites, if they get caught it's all, "Oh, I'm just a flirt" BS.

I don't care for big flirts. A little is fine, but some people do it too much for my liking.
Well I knew about this guy before I met him. He likes to act nutty and you can't tell what is real. His texts did confuse me, and I still don't know what that meant.

I admit I like Mr. Maniac. Never knew anyone quite like that before. But like I said, I am not interested in joining anyone's harem. Anyway I like Mr. Cutie and don't want to hurt him. It will all blow over I am pretty sure.
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Old 09-09-2021, 06:13 PM
 
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Well I knew about this guy before I met him. He likes to act nutty and you can't tell what is real. His texts did confuse me, and I still don't know what that meant.

I admit I like Mr. Maniac. Never knew anyone quite like that before. But like I said, I am not interested in joining anyone's harem. Anyway I like Mr. Cutie and don't want to hurt him. It will all blow over I am pretty sure.
Are you getting something out of this HS talk?
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Old 09-09-2021, 06:44 PM
 
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Are you getting something out of this HS talk?
If you are too sophisticated and smart for the thread, there's the door.

God some people are so desperate to feel superior.
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Old 09-09-2021, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Femboyville
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If you are too sophisticated and smart for the thread, there's the door.

God some people are so desperate to feel superior.
Well, some of us graduate from Adolescence Academy at some point... I did at age 18. Others... well, some seem to be repeating the same 'courses' perpetually.

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Old 09-10-2021, 04:27 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Well I knew about this guy before I met him. He likes to act nutty and you can't tell what is real. His texts did confuse me, and I still don't know what that meant.

I admit I like Mr. Maniac. Never knew anyone quite like that before. But like I said, I am not interested in joining anyone's harem. Anyway I like Mr. Cutie and don't want to hurt him. It will all blow over I am pretty sure.
You'll be alright, lol, it's not a great situation, but not as bad as everyone here makes it seem. Men can be pretty thirsty, especially during the pandemic, lol... All in good fun, I suppose. I think that's cool you're a singer. I'm in the arts as well, so I'm accustomed to dealing with musicians and artists. These are my people, I know how to handle them, lol. I'm sure you do, too... now No worries
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Old 09-10-2021, 09:00 AM
 
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Well, some of us graduate from Adolescence Academy at some point... I did at age 18. Others... well, some seem to be repeating the same 'courses' perpetually.
Congratulations, you win a prize. Collect your "I am better than you" T shirt at the door.
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Old 09-10-2021, 09:04 AM
 
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You'll be alright, lol, it's not a great situation, but not as bad as everyone here makes it seem. Men can be pretty thirsty, especially during the pandemic, lol... All in good fun, I suppose. I think that's cool you're a singer. I'm in the arts as well, so I'm accustomed to dealing with musicians and artists. These are my people, I know how to handle them, lol. I'm sure you do, too... now No worries
I only have been very much part of this world since I retired from work. I never ran into a guy like Mr. Mania before. I am not at all glamorous, and I don't usually make guys go wild. Not at all used to this specific kind of situation. All I was trying to do is get along with everybody. I should have just smiled every time he flirted. Mostly I just laughed. One time I said "I think you need better glasses," after he said how gorgeous I am.

But now I can see I encouraged him too much.
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Old 09-10-2021, 09:09 AM
 
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Cops have lots of affairs. Lots of GFs. 9 times out of 10 they were less good looking than their wives. Guys that full around aren't necessarily going for looks. Some guys just like to rack up numbers.
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Old 09-10-2021, 09:40 AM
 
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Cops have lots of affairs. Lots of GFs. 9 times out of 10 they were less good looking than their wives. Guys that full around aren't necessarily going for looks. Some guys just like to rack up numbers.
You are right. This didn't happen because I am pretty, or a good singer. Nothing for me to feel good about here. I just have a vagina and a pulse.
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Old 09-10-2021, 10:03 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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You are right. This didn't happen because I am pretty, or a good singer. Nothing for me to feel good about here. I just have a vagina and a pulse.
It's human nature on some degree.

Everyone wants to feel desired or whatever word is more appropriate. Sometimes someone gives you a nice compliment or acts in a flattering way to you of course we tend to respond positively. If I were you I wouldn't chew on it in your mind too much. I think as we get older our exteriors aren't as youthful and attractive as they once were.

When I was younger I got a pretty good amount of attention from women, not trying to brag, but just being honest and looking back. I'm 52 now and while I'm not Quasimodo, I can see my looks fading, getting a bit heavier, not at my fighting weight. I'm more invisible to women now, I've had to face that, but it is what it is. I'm not in the market for a woman as I've been coupled up for many years, but like I mentioned it's nice to get an admiring glace or smile, whatever.

Hopefully Mr. Cutie is a good long term thing for you.
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