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But that's kind of the point. No, she doesn't want to sleep with you, But instead of saying that, she invents the whole "boyfriend" thing.
It's this little game played between sexes. He wants to sleep with her, but instead of coming right out and saying it (because he knows that if he did, he'd destroy his chances), he asks her out. She KNOWS his game, so instead of saying, "No, I don't want to sleep with you", her go-to move is, "I have a boyfriend." MOST of the time, it works.
Personally, I've only used that once or twice. I know I've use it once. As for twice, I'm still foggy on that. But the one time I'm sure of, I used it because the guy was getting pushy. My saying, "No thanks" wasn't good enough for him. It was only after I said, "I have a boyfriend" that he backed off.
Why couldn't he have just taken 'no thanks' for an answer in the first place?
If I were to guess... he probably thought he still had a chance. I've known women who wore a ring to keep guys from hitting on them.
That it takes two to tangle and it helps when you read the dating signals correct.
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What 'dating signals' are you talking about?
Boy sees girl across room...Boy finds girl attractive enough to want to screw... boy approaches girl...girl shoots him down...boy limps away, licking his ego, deciding that ALL women are 'evil'.
WHOSE "fault" is this?
Known fact: Plenty of guys lie about their intentions.
And most women don't want those intentions to become a reality.
Boy sees girl across room...Boy finds girl attractive enough to want to screw... boy approaches girl...girl shoots him down...boy limps away, licking his ego, deciding that ALL women are 'evil'.
WHOSE "fault" is this?
Known fact: Plenty of guys lie about their intentions.
And most women don't want those intentions to become a reality.
Sorry but your views on dating are as nutty as the OP's need for an explanation.
Good night.
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