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Old 12-25-2023, 10:12 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Oh heck, call me naive - I don't care. There are worse character traits. This is not my first rodeo, I know what love is.
Didn't say you don't know what love is. Quite the opposite actually. It seems the overall message and intent was missed by you though.

Dismissing instead of understanding what people are saying here is in fact an emotional response rather than a rational one. Part of the problem the OP has realized.
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Old 12-25-2023, 10:46 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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It's really difficult to live with a person who has jealousy issues and who makes false accusations. Keep that in mind and do not be surprised if at one point he has had enough of it and leaves.
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Old 12-25-2023, 03:53 PM
 
Location: Vermont
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I'd give you the heave ho.
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Old 12-26-2023, 11:38 AM
 
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I admitted to him I have jealousy issues I need to work on. I'm glad I didn't go psycho on the innocent woman. I was mad at him, not her with my insecurities that needs to be worked on. Is it possible for him to forgive me within time and rebuild trust?
Anything can happen. You would definitely have to talk to him about it, and work on that issue you have. Hopefully, you two can work things out.
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Old 12-26-2023, 11:41 AM
 
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I've been falsely accused of cheating. I ended it because clearly that person did not know me AT ALL.
False accusations are just...

One time is too many.
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Old 12-27-2023, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Southeast
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I admitted to him I have jealousy issues I need to work on...my insecurities that needs to be worked on
I would have walked the minute you said that. You know you have issues but you won't work on them, or you wouldn't have done it again. Pfft.


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I'm glad I didn't go psycho on the innocent woman.
Best be careful who you "go psycho on".
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