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I admitted to him I have jealousy issues I need to work on. I'm glad I didn't go psycho on the innocent woman. I was mad at him, not her with my insecurities that needs to be worked on. Is it possible for him to forgive me within time and rebuild trust?
If it were me, I'd wouldn't give you another chance until you worked your jealousy/insecurity.
You need to deal with those before you get into relationships.
[quote=Pitt Chick;66197518]He's the one you need to talk to...
If it were me, I'd wouldn't give you another chance until you worked your jealousy/insecurity. You need to deal with those before you get into relationships.[/QUOTE]
Agreed!
I admitted to him I have jealousy issues I need to work on. I'm glad I didn't go psycho on the innocent woman. I was mad at him, not her with my insecurities that needs to be worked on. Is it possible for him to forgive me within time and rebuild trust?
That’s a question for him, but your insecurities/jealousy issues will resurface, no doubt; it’s disturbing you would even think about ‘going psycho’ on some woman (whether she be ‘innocent’ or not). It’s a huge red flag, to be sure.
A lot of ya'll need to get out of the habit of running to a forum full of strangers as soon you start having a problem with your significant other. Ya'll will do everything BUT talk to the person that you're sleeping with it.
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Talk to him for the best results. Me personally, once you show me you have a jealousy issue you can’t contain, it’s a wrap for any relationship we are in.
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Originally Posted by Auraliea
A lot of ya'll need to get out of the habit of running to a forum full of strangers as soon you start having a problem with your significant other. Ya'll will do everything BUT talk to the person that you're sleeping with it.
TALK TO HIM.
Some of us don't really have close friends to vent/seek advice...
Rumors spread like wildfire not wanting to share with anyone you know
I admitted to him I have jealousy issues I need to work on. I'm glad I didn't go psycho on the innocent woman. I was mad at him, not her with my insecurities that needs to be worked on. Is it possible for him to forgive me within time and rebuild trust?
I'd dump you in a heartbeat for doing that. I have no use for people like that.
A lot of ya'll need to get out of the habit of running to a forum full of strangers as soon you start having a problem with your significant other. Ya'll will do everything BUT talk to the person that you're sleeping with it.
TALK TO HIM.
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Originally Posted by HappyFarm34
Some of us don't really have close friends to vent/seek advice...
I admitted to him I have jealousy issues I need to work on. I'm glad I didn't go psycho on the innocent woman. I was mad at him, not her with my insecurities that needs to be worked on. Is it possible for him to forgive me within time and rebuild trust?
Not something I could deal with in a mate, but everyone is different. For yourself get some help with this issue before embarking on another relationship.
I never had the energy to be jealous. Either I can trust you or I cant. If I know I cant we are done. Life is too short to spend with jealousy.
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