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Old 02-14-2024, 03:16 PM
 
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OP,

If both girls are friends and showing the same behavior towards you. I'm leaning now more towards they are toying with you.
Yes, some women are cruel like that.
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Old 02-14-2024, 03:39 PM
 
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OP,

If both girls are friends and showing the same behavior towards you. I'm leaning now more towards they are toying with you.
Yes, some women are cruel like that.
No I don’t think so. I think it’s more likely they are just friendly than toying with me. I feel like the flirting usually happens when they’re not together.
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Old 02-14-2024, 04:12 PM
 
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No I don’t think so. I think it’s more likely they are just friendly than toying with me. I feel like the flirting usually happens when they’re not together.
So they are only flirting with you when the other is not around? Why would they care if the other is around or not if it was real flirting? Seems like they each plan something so not to flirt while you 3 are together.
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Old 02-14-2024, 04:19 PM
 
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So they are only flirting with you when the other is not around? Why would they care if the other is around or not if it was real flirting? Seems like they each plan something so not to flirt while you 3 are together.
Why would they toy with me though. I don’t hover around them or give them a lot of attention: I do quite the opposite cause I don’t want to look unattractive.
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Old 02-14-2024, 04:43 PM
 
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Why would they toy with me though. I don’t hover around them or give them a lot of attention: I do quite the opposite cause I don’t want to look unattractive.
Cause some women are like that, or they want attention from you and make you pursuit them only to reject you. This is done for their ego.

I don't know, I'm just speculating.
Again, if each one of them was romantically interested in you as in a real relationship.
I don't think they would care if each was around to flirt with you.
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Old 02-14-2024, 04:52 PM
 
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Cause some women are like that, or they want attention from you and make you pursuit them only to reject you. This is done for their ego.

I don't know, I'm just speculating.
Again, if each one of them was romantically interested in you as in a real relationship.
I don't think they would care if each was around to flirt with you.
Well I guess it’s mixed. If she was toying with me I assume she would be repulsed by me. She doesn’t cause she let me drink from her cup

One of them even gave me a dessert plate from this party they threw at my job cause I was busy. What benefit do they get out of me. It’s possible but I think the odds are low
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Old 02-15-2024, 07:05 AM
 
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Well I guess it’s mixed. If she was toying with me I assume she would be repulsed by me. She doesn’t cause she let me drink from her cup

One of them even gave me a dessert plate from this party they threw at my job cause I was busy. What benefit do they get out of me. It’s possible but I think the odds are low



Civilization is much younger than our biology. Toying with you implies some kind of predatory game. Not at all.

Men , as a whole, have a drive for multiple options, and women have a drive to keep multiple options open. Men tended to go missing back in the day . They came back with loses maybe from a battle , fell out of a tree , ran into a mother bear and so on.


If they bring you food they want you somewhere in their life. From what I have seen women just love to feed "their men" What exactly that is is either an option in reserve or her main option. She is not scheming.. To her it feels nice to do it...which will also feel nice to you. Sure, at the underlying level its transactional. However in a tough world these transactions are essential. Just don't ask them for any advice. They will lie to you to spare your feelings.
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Old 02-15-2024, 07:32 AM
 
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they are toying with you

Nah, the OP is toying with y'all.
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Old 02-15-2024, 07:43 AM
 
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Nah, the OP is toying with y'all.
If so, all the more reason the OP needs to cultivate friendships, improve his/her social skills, and date outside of the workplace. ;-)
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Old 02-15-2024, 09:46 AM
 
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If so, all the more reason the OP needs to cultivate friendships, improve his/her social skills, and date outside of the workplace. ;-)



Yeah, this dude cannot be put in the starting line up. He needs to sit on the bench and watch....or read a biography on Tiger Woods.
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