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Hello,
Long story short - today I've travelled by a train after really long time. I was sitting next to a pretty girl but she was working on her laptop with headphones on. I wanted to talk to her but at the same time I didn't want to disturb her - I didn't know how to break the ice without sounding weird. I looked at her laptop few times and I found out her name.
After some time I had to take other seat at different table because it wasn't my seat. Basically we were sitting opposite of each other. Our eyes met few times.
Now I'm just really unsure if I should even write her or forget about that girl and move on.. What's your opinion ?
Probably with many strangers on the train on any given day. Don't put too much investment in that as a sign of interest.
But....
Do you talk to others on the train? How did those conversations start? This would be no different.
I've commuted by train to and from NYC many times. Usually, I end up introducing myself to people I see are on the same train/schedule as myself. I've had some great conversations with regular travelers over the years. Just because you find her attractive doesn't make her any different. Certainly don't disturb them if they have headphones, reading, working and such. Also, looking over her shoulder at her laptop.... don't do that. Just be courteous and respectful.
You didn't actually meet her. If you contact her based on based on information you got from sneaking glances at her laptop, that's going to creep her out. The time to shoot your shot has passed.
Hello,
Long story short - today I've travelled by a train after really long time. I was sitting next to a pretty girl but she was working on her laptop with headphones on. I wanted to talk to her but at the same time I didn't want to disturb her - I didn't know how to break the ice without sounding weird. I looked at her laptop few times and I found out her name.
After some time I had to take other seat at different table because it wasn't my seat. Basically we were sitting opposite of each other. Our eyes met few times.
Now I'm just really unsure if I should even write her or forget about that girl and move on.. What's your opinion ?
So you took someone else's seat to sit close to a girl who obviously did not want to be disturbed (as she had on headphones and was working) (stalking) and creepily looked at what she was doing on her laptop where somehow saw her name, and now you think it is a good idea to write to her? No.
I think I didn't describe it correctly. She was working/studying for maybe 20 minutes, then she put on her headphones and watched some movie/s the whole time..
Anyway, I guess this does not change anything and the best move here is to just move on
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