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Go out and get you some and then see if you start getting more play.
Like I said before, I don't do the sex outside marriage routine, compared to most people of the younger generation today. I'm not down with fornication.
Like I said before, I don't do the sex outside marriage routine, compared to most people of the younger generation today. I'm not down with fornication.
i would rather be with a man that is inexperienced. that way we learn and experience all the new feelings together. i'd say waiting til marriage is the most wise!!
i would rather be with a man that is inexperienced. that way we learn and experience all the new feelings together. i'd say waiting til marriage is the most wise!!
Sounds like a good woman, compared to the opposite who had experience with others.
I'm hoping this post doesn't mean that you consider all women who have had experience with others 'bad.' That would mean that you're saying the majority of women on this forum, in your eyes, are bad. That's a pretty derogatory statement to make on a public forum. According to a study whose results were published in Public Health Reports in December 2006, 91% of women who were born from 1950 to 1978 had premarital sex by age 30. I'd say that a lot of the women on this forum were born during those years and, according to that study, the great majority of them had premarital sex, including me. If you're tired of people complaining about your posts, you really might want to think about what you write and who it might offend before you submit that post. I have no issues with you wanting to stay a virgin before marriage, but I do have issues with you making derogatory statements about the majority of women on this forum.
I'm hoping this post doesn't mean that you consider all women who have had experience with others 'bad.' That would mean that you're saying the majority of women on this forum, in your eyes, are bad. That's a pretty derogatory statement to make on a public forum. According to a study whose results were published in Public Health Reports in December 2006, 91% of women who were born from 1950 to 1978 had premarital sex by age 30. I'd say that a lot of the women on this forum were born during those years and, according to that study, the great majority of them had premarital sex, including me. If you're tired of people complaining about your posts, you really might want to think about what you write and who it might offend before you submit that post. I have no issues with you wanting to stay a virgin before marriage, but I do have issues with you making derogatory statements about the majority of women on this forum.
If I have misread your post, please let me know.
Well, what I mean, if women like guys who sleep with anybody, that's pretty bad. Suppose a girl gets with a guy, they have sex, then he dumps her for to go on to another girl and do the same thing. That would be considered using.
Its like saying most girls like bad boys, but then they meet a bad guy and try to change him. And if a girl marries a bad guy, it could be a possibility that she may fall into a abusive relationship.
Well, what I mean, if women like guys who sleep with anybody, that's pretty bad. Suppose a girl gets with a guy, they have sex, then he dumps her for to go on to another girl and do the same thing. That would be considered using.
Its like saying most girls like bad boys, but then they meet a bad guy and try to change him. And if a girl marries a bad guy, it could be a possibility that she may fall into a abusive relationship.
OK, I got it. Sorry if I misinterpreted what you said.
SOOOO, as you can see, I changed my mind several times as I aged. I think women are more fluid in their thoughts about having kids. The fact that I changed my mind has a lot to do with where my life was in relation to my jobs (early on, my jobs weren't compatible with having kids and I LOVED my jobs then, so kids were on a way way back burner or not even on the stove.) When I left that job, life for me slowed down (not in a bad way,) and I began to think that kids could be in my future. That feeling intensified as I got older. I think this happens with a lot of women who once thought they didnt' want kids. THIS is what you need to be prepared for and I know of no way that you can verify with anybody that even though they say now they never want kids, that that is the way they'll feel in 15 years. Things DO change. They did with me. I do not consider myself a weak person for changing my views on having kids. My life situation changed over the years, making having a child possible and then, later, desirable. A lot of living happened in my life between when I first thought about being a mom (when I was a kid) to when I actually adopted my first daughter at 45. I went back and forth and up and down. I'm curious about other women and whether they also were as up and down in their desire to have kids as I was.
I changed my mind a few times. I liked kids (babies mainly) when I was a teenager. But the older I got, the more they got on my nerves. (Not the babies. I still liked them.) By the time I got married (at almost 22), I didn't like kids and didn't want them. Less than two years later, I got pregnant. I was thrilled. lol We had a son and a couple years later we wanted a girl and got pregnant again. With a girl. We tried for a third, but I had become infertile (PCOS).
I still don't like most kids (they really get on my nerves lol), but I love mine and can't imagine life without them.
I'm still kind of young (35), but I've lived long enough to know that plans and desires do change. We do change our minds about things. Sometimes even hating things we used to love and loving things we used to hate. Wanting things we didn't want before and not wanting things we wanted before. Change comes with maturity. The older we get, the more we change. It's ingrained in us. There's no fighting it. Some things about us remain the same, but a lot of things do change. That's life.
I'm not saying that the original poster will change his mind about wanting kids. I can't predict the future. (Neither can he.) I'm just talking about change in general.
“To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly.” -- Henri Bergson
When I was in my mid-20s it was "cute" to "teach" my boyfriends, it was enpowering! But as I aged I found the guys with alot of experience were more confident and knew what to do and had tricks of their own, and that was much more satisfying.
I prefer a man with expereince - I'm done with the "green peas"
(My husband has had a bunch and it doesn't bother me in the least)
Actually I'm with you. I'm not really interested in someone who has waited for religious reasons - in fact I would positively avoid someone who had waited for religious reasons. If it wasn't for religious reasons then I would be concerned about their ability to conduct a fulfilling relationship. Especially an older guy - say 20 plus. I would find it a turn off.
I enjoy teaching a guy what works for me, but I hope they hve some tricks up their sleeve also. A complete beginner would be disappointing.
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