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View Poll Results: Would you women date a crossdresser!
I’m a woman, I wouldn’t consider a crossdresser! 150 50.51%
I’m a woman, maybe I would consider a crossdresser! 32 10.77%
I’m a woman, I’d love a crossdresser! 16 5.39%
I’m a woman, I had a crossdresser and left him! 5 1.68%
I’m a woman, I had a crossdresser and seek more like him! 3 1.01%
I’m a woman, I have a crossdresser and tolerate him if he keeps it out of sight! 0 0%
I’m a woman, I have a crossdresser and tolerate him if he’s in drag! 5 1.68%
I’m a guy that just needs to see this poll! 86 28.96%
Voters: 297. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-21-2010, 10:55 AM
 
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I just divorced my cross-dressing spouse because he started trolling for men; so not only is he a cross-dresser, he's also bisexual.....nope, nope, nope......time to go and find a REAL man.
lmao!!
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Old 03-10-2010, 05:43 PM
 
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I do too actually! And no worries -- hopefully Adam Lambert is bringing that back!
I think that Adam is cute. Johnny Weir is just flat out GORGEOUS!
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Old 04-10-2012, 06:51 AM
 
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k i consider myself pretty open minded being i love visual kei bands but only cross dresser i'd actually consider is someone like Mana who is in fact man and is famous in japan he looks really good as a cross dresser or a man but I'm sorry to tell you it is not for you it does not compliment you.
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Old 05-04-2012, 10:04 AM
 
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jst because your not into ncrossdressers don t knock till you tried one out for your self ,it might just turn out to be the best love maker u ever had a crossdresser has the feelings of a women takes it slow and easy not wham bam thank u mam
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Old 05-05-2012, 01:39 PM
 
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Would women ever date, like, or marry a crossdresser? Have you ever dated one and how was it like? Or did you marry a guy and later find out he was a crossdresser - how did it turn out - did you stay or leave him?

What do you think about me? MY DETAILS -
5' 4" tall, consider myself slightly overweight at 152 lbs, I like to stay at 145 lbs or below. I fit size 4s but I'm a perfect size 6. Fit a rare few size 2s. I counted my skirt suits in my Texas APT - about $8900 worth, maybe 60 skirt suits? Plus I have real cheerleader, schoolgirl, and 2 goth outfits, + rare few casual wear. When I deck myself out with a wig, L'Oreal powder beard cover, fake breasts, lipstick, and a nice outfit like a skirt suit - I look like a real pretty woman! I go out like this and shop in drag and use the women's fitting room and bathroom and pass! My femme voice is 65% passable.

So would you ever date a guy like me? I'm not gay into men and never will have sex with men, I only like women, but I would do straight or role reversal with women. I look good enough in guy mode too to attract pretty enough women.

The pic is me in my $195 ebay St John skirt suit! I wore this out shopping in drag and a pretty tall blonde white women said hi to me like she wanted to be girl friends!

Post your thoughts and vote in the poll too!
How do I get the key to your closet?!! You haven't told us anything about yourself other than that you're a cross-dresser. Would you be loyal, generous, appreciative, kind, intelligent and fun (fun outside of the cross-dressing)? That's what it's really all about.

P.S. Someone mentioned sarongs. Try some, the real kind, from Fiji, and wherever. Traditional sarongs are a great ethnic look on a guy. (The bare upper half really helps sell 'em.)
Also: I don't believe you passed for a woman. Your calves are too built. The store staff may have figured you were trans-gender, and didn't worry about it. Whatever.

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Old 05-05-2012, 02:55 PM
 
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What even causes a man to WANT to cross-dress? I know it happens. I've even heard some are married and have REASONABLY normal relations with their wives.

Assume a guy has hair on his chest and legs, has a stockier frame, and a reasonably deep voice. What's amiss that he wants to emulate a woman? Am I correct in assuming that only a man who is somewhat "beta" in appearance (more of a pretty boy) would be interested in this more so than an "alpha" male?
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Old 05-05-2012, 03:26 PM
 
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No crossdressers for me, thanks...

It was nice of the OP to post a pic though.
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Old 05-06-2012, 09:51 AM
 
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You obviously have a serious compulsion or hobby - don't know how you see it - but you seem to be committed to it - I think you should not put your business out there on a public forum because your self-esteem could suffer, as a result - never seek approval from other people.

I think in gay communities there are all kinds of sub-communities with people who like certain things, so I don't think you would have a problem finding some woman who might be into this . . .

Do you know WHY you are obsessed with women's "costumes?" (The outfit you posted and the ones you mentioned are definitely costumes, not just normal female apparel).
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Old 05-06-2012, 10:58 AM
 
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"Costumes"? The man wears St. John! He has good taste. I'd date him just to get a chance to borrow his clothes!

This guy has self-esteem to spare, no need to worry about that. If you don't like his thread, you don't have to look at it. He's just having some harmless fun. I actually liked the cheerleader outfit on him better than the St. John suit.

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Old 05-06-2012, 11:24 AM
 
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"Costumes"? The man wears St. John! He has good taste. I'd date him just to get a chance to borrow his clothes!

This guy has self-esteem to spare, no need to worry about that. If you don't like his thread, you don't have to look at it. He's just having some harmless fun. I actually liked the cheerleader outfit on him better than the St. John suit.
I don't believe I said I "don't like his thread."

I was just thinking he is going to get some criticism, which could hurt his self-esteem.
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