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Cheating is cheating no matter which way you look at it or in what situation it is done. Cheating simply means not playing by the rules. You agreed to a set of rules when you entered into the marriage contract and, if you're religious, you agreed to it in front of god. One of the rules is that you have ONE partner for all the things that marriage entails and that includes sex. Again, if you and your partner decide to amend that contract in any way then you've done nothing wrong and are not cheating but if one of you decides to change the rules without the consent of the other then you've cheated.
For the "you've done nothing wrong unless you get caught" (darstar) argument, if that's how you feel then you should look up the definitions to "cheating" and "ethics" since you obviously don't know the meaning of the first and have none of the latter.
Sure, it's cheating. So what? You can lecture me when you have walked a mile in my shoes. As far as having "no ethics", that is your opinion. Just because my set of ethics doesn't exactly match yours, doesn't mean I don't have any sense of ethics. In every other way, I am much more ethical than most people I know.
I refuse to just give up on having a sex life just because my husband is not interested in having one. I only have one life to live and I won't live it suffering in silence.
I refuse to just give up on having a sex life just because my husband is not interested in having one. I only have one life to live and I won't live it suffering in silence.
If sex is so much more important than your marriage, why not just get divorced?
Cheating is cheating no matter which way you look at it or in what situation it is done. Cheating simply means not playing by the rules. You agreed to a set of rules when you entered into the marriage contract and, if you're religious, you agreed to it in front of god. One of the rules is that you have ONE partner for all the things that marriage entails and that includes sex. Again, if you and your partner decide to amend that contract in any way then you've done nothing wrong and are not cheating but if one of you decides to change the rules without the consent of the other then you've cheated.
For the "you've done nothing wrong unless you get caught" (darstar) argument, if that's how you feel then you should look up the definitions to "cheating" and "ethics" since you obviously don't know the meaning of the first and have none of the latter.
You are quoting me falsely......I never said such a thing as you give me credit for. We can have differences , but , you have now taken this to another level !!
Yes we do. And that issue did come up when we went to marriage counseling. I insisted we get counseling because I found out that he had seen a few prostitutes. This was very painful since he wasn't giving any to me. It turns out he had a Madonna/***** complex where he had my on some kind of pedestal and couldn't imagine doing those nasty things to a pure woman like his wife.
Yes we do. And that issue did come up when we went to marriage counseling. I insisted we get counseling because I found out that he had seen a few prostitutes. This was very painful since he wasn't giving any to me. It turns out he had a Madonna/***** complex where he had my on some kind of pedestal and couldn't imagine doing those nasty things to a pure woman like his wife.
Whoa, he was seeing prostitutes after you were sleeping around with random strangers for meaningless sex?
I have not taken the time to read all twenty six pages of this drama, but this statement tells me all I need to know. All bets would be off with me.
ME too..... if my man cant give it to me and I need to go out and get it else where but he's seeing prostitutes then we'd be in divorce court asap!!!!!!!
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