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I received alimony from my first divorce and we were only married 3 yrs. and only actually lived together for a year of that time! It's all about a good attorney!!!
You know, if you had lived with the guy for 15-20 years, I might understand that a little better. But getting alimony after one year? Surely you didn't go to total economic dependency on him in that period of time, especially if you were on your own in the intervening two years between separation and divorce. That borders on parasitic, and certainly nothing to brag about.
I never asked my DH to get a vas., I went ahead and got a tubal and you dont hear me crying about it. Not when they filled my abdominal cavity with air, not when they made an incision below my naval and pulled out my fallopian tubes, cut out a section, burnt the ends and banded them back together, all that after passing a 9lb human with a basketball head out my woo woo.
I do believe sterilization makes for better sexcapades. Not worrying about pregnancy makes a woman more relaxed and the more relaxed she is the better the sex.
Yeah, I know it's a horse. I just feel sorry for him. They feel pain too.....especially that kind of pain.
Well, I feel for you on that sterilization part.....not gonna happen in my lifetime for me tho.
Yeah, I know it's a horse. I just feel sorry for him. They feel pain too.....especially that kind of pain.
He was under anesthesia during the procedure. Now my other colt had to have major surgery to dig his testicles out of his abdominal cavity. That was a bit more traumatic. Talk about pain, that vet bill really hurt.
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Well, I feel for you on that sterilization part
Thanks, but I was under anesthesia too. No biggie.
Is it my imagination or am I seeing so many suggestions to spice up the sex life relating to doing household chores or some form of "payment" to get sex. **** me Agnes, the world's on fire! This makes me feel like there are conditions, work related ones at that, for being able to have sex. How is that different from going to Vegas and contracting with an escort service (other than it involves someone else)?
Warning! Gross generalization to follow...
Let's face it folks, we are from different planets. We men see an attractive women somewhere and within moments, we are bending her over and doing her right there on the spot. And she's enjoying it! Women, on the other hand, need preparation and are inherently less interested in sex. Oh there's plenty of it before marriage when both are on their best behavior but...
So our libidos are inherently different. If more of us approached the subject logically, more of us would forgoe marriage. The logic here is that if sex is truly that important, and it diminishes with marriage and even more so after children, why would we do it?
Now, I am speaking up after 19 years of marriage and one child. I love my wife and child and we are all still together. Nonetheless, if you asked me, or a majority of married men out there, if we are getting enough, you'd get a resounding "no". Before any of you get your panties in a wad, I'm not talking about twice a day but just simply more.
Is it my imagination or am I seeing so many suggestions to spice up the sex life relating to doing household chores or some form of "payment" to get sex. **** me Agnes, the world's on fire! This makes me feel like there are conditions, work related ones at that, for being able to have sex. How is that different from going to Vegas and contracting with an escort service (other than it involves someone else)?
Warning! Gross generalization to follow...
Let's face it folks, we are from different planets. We men see an attractive women somewhere and within moments, we are bending her over and doing her right there on the spot. And she's enjoying it! Women, on the other hand, need preparation and are inherently less interested in sex. Oh there's plenty of it before marriage when both are on their best behavior but...
So our libidos are inherently different. If more of us approached the subject logically, more of us would forgoe marriage. The logic here is that if sex is truly that important, and it diminishes with marriage and even more so after children, why would we do it?
Now, I am speaking up after 19 years of marriage and one child. I love my wife and child and we are all still together. Nonetheless, if you asked me, or a majority of married men out there, if we are getting enough, you'd get a resounding "no". Before any of you get your panties in a wad, I'm not talking about twice a day but just simply more.
Fellas?
wow....that stinks for you my hubby doesn't have that problem as my "libido" may actually be too high.....so, seems as though your "gross generalizations" may actually be "gross assumptions".
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Your married too goofball.....happily I assume?? 
Paying 4 sex
my hubby doesn't have that problem as my "libido" may actually be too high.....so, seems as though your "gross generalizations" may actually be "gross assumptions". 