Guys do you lose respect for a girl if she sleeps with you on the first night? (married, husband)

[Womanofsubstance]

Originally Posted by AaronK

Depends on how well the drugs work.

Yep...that too...lol

[Chowhound]

NO

I slept with a few women right away and had relaionships with them.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

NO

I slept with a few women right away and had relaionships with them.

Yey, finally a confession from Chow! OK, I'm revising my opinion - in that case perhaps you're not as "nice" as I thought.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Yey, finally a confession from Chow! OK, I'm revising my opinion - in that case perhaps you're not as "nice" as I thought.

I disagree my friend, me sleeping with ladies and still being their friend is a good thing.

Many men would foolishly disregard such things.


BTW, I make all kinds of confessions here on CD.

[wallstreeterww]

I will never lose respect for a girl that I sleep with on the first night because im a virgin who is staying a virgin till marriage, so that girl will never have to worry about me losing respect for her

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

I disagree my friend, me sleeping with ladies and still being their friend is a good thing.

Heck, when did I say you have to be enemies? My point is that if you can produce such a result, you don't come across as the stereotypical "nice/aka wussy" guy.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by wallstreeterww

I will never lose respect for a girl that I sleep with on the first night because im a virgin who is staying a virgin till marriage, so that girl will never have to worry about me losing respect for her

Sorry if I missed it, but how old are you? Just curious.

[coldwine]

I've slept with a lot of men on the first date.

I don't care if they lost respect for me.

Let's be realistic here, I and a lot of other women are out to play the game just like men are. There's no respect to be lost other than... What? Do most men respect women anyways, and if they do, does losing it through sex implicate that men only respected women because they fit a certain stereotype?

And if they did respect them, and then lost it after sex, what does that say about someone who would sleep with someone they didn't respect?

Welcome to a woman's mind, take a left at any one of the ten thousand curves

[Visvaldis]

Guys do you lose respect for a girl if she sleeps with you on the first night?

Only if I find my wallet and her missing when I wake up.

[Jane72]

I think it's wise to get to know someone before you sleep with them, but on the other hand, sexual attraction can be a compelling force sometimes, especially when you're young.