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Old 11-24-2008, 01:03 PM
 
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I do, its cool because a guy will never turn down some eazy bootay, but its not somebody i would consider wifey material, if she slept w me, the first night, she probably did it atleast 5,6,7, times before me~
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Old 11-24-2008, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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It all depends on how well we connected.
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Old 11-24-2008, 01:05 PM
 
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It all depends on how well we connected.
I agree with this. Sometimes the chemistry is just so strong on both ends that things like this can happen.
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Old 11-24-2008, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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It's a double edge sword. men want it the first night, yet then she's considered a **** if she does it, we prefer to wait, the guys dumps her because she won't have sex with him.
what constitutes "wife material"? how many dates before you have sex is the correct "wife" number?
if the guy has had sex on the first date, then he's done it with 5-7 girls before me as well. it goes both ways. "Husband" material isn't a guy who sleeps with a girl on every first date, either!
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Old 11-24-2008, 01:13 PM
 
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The rules for long term relationship partners are very ridiculous to be honest.
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Old 11-24-2008, 01:18 PM
 
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I had sex on the first date with my husband 14 years ago. We simply couldn't stop ourselves. But, we had been friends for several months, so it wasn't like he was a stranger or anything.
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Old 11-24-2008, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Wichita,Kansas
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If i really liked a girl and i thought there was potential i would try to..
Wait until the 3rd date.
Honesty i have lost respect if it happened too fast.
I do agree with others though if the chemistry was incredible and..
I think sleeping together the first night is really putting a potential relationship at..
Risk.The guy may lose some respect and the girl may feel ashamed.
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Old 11-24-2008, 01:33 PM
 
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I would not want sex on the first date if I'm in the "interviewing mode" and already know I will not be pursuing the situation. You do that in your 20s.
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Old 11-24-2008, 01:35 PM
 
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The rules for long term relationship partners are very ridiculous to be honest.

The world is coming to and end..Someone displayed common sense on city data in the relationship board!

hell freezing
pigs flying...

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Old 11-24-2008, 01:36 PM
 
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Sorry to disprove your theory but I am in my twenties and have never had sex on my first date.

It must stink to feel so wrong

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I would not want sex on the first date if I'm in the "interviewing mode" and already know I will not be pursuing the situation. You do that in your 20s.
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