Do women want a virgin? (wife, boyfriend, how to, married)
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I kinow that some guys like a virgin lady (I think). Well I am a 22 yr. old male virgin. Do girls find this weird? I am not un-attractive, I am 6-3 180. So that is not it. I just have not felt like I 'needed' to 'lose' it. Would girls be more attracted to that fact, or would it be a 'Holy cow stay away from that guy' kind of feeling. Also, I am MORE than willing to wait until I am married until I actually 'complete' the act. Ladies, what say you?
I think it's sweet that you are a virgin and want to wait. I know several young women that would be into that portion of your life. I do however think that the older you get, the more awkward being a virgin becomes. Take the move the Forty Year Old Virgin. It was funny because it was quirky and the idea of being a virgin that late in life is unheard for the majority of people out there.
For myself, because I have kids and have been married, I would not necessarily want you because you are a virgin, just the same as you would probably not want me for not being a virgin and having two kids.
I think that if you truly are a virgin at 22 that you should hold onto to your virginity until you are ready to get married.
I think women see virgin males as a prize. Just the pure thought of having to un-virginize a guy surely will raise their reasons for wanting to take him home and fondle him.
I think there are pluses and minuses to it. On one hand, there are benefits to being with a partner who is experienced and knows what to do. There is also the worry that once his first sexual relationship matures, he may be curious to try things out with a new partner. On the other hand, with a virgin, you don't have to worry about disease, and hopefully he will be eager to learn how to please, and he won't have any unpleasant sexual baggage from past partners.
I would not consider it a deal breaker by any means, and if you are happy with it, then that's all that matters.
No I think it's great but on a dif aspect. My 16 year old wants to wait til she is married before she has sex and it's nice knowing there are guys out there that are doing the same. So I guess i'm looking at this as a mom point of view..Wait you won't regret it lol..
On a woman level..I have no desire to be someones first due to the fact that I am not a virgin, obviously lol..the last thing I'd want to do is have someone in my bed that is pure in that area while I am not.
I have a 26 year old friend, male as this thread is about, who is a virgin. although he's gotten head a lot, at least from what he's said and from what i've seen going on at parties. but you'd be amazed at the # of female friends of ours that want to do him. it's like a challenge for all the hotties to get him to succumb to their feminine prowess.
I kinow that some guys like a virgin lady (I think). Well I am a 22 yr. old male virgin. Do girls find this weird? I am not un-attractive, I am 6-3 180. So that is not it. I just have not felt like I 'needed' to 'lose' it. Would girls be more attracted to that fact, or would it be a 'Holy cow stay away from that guy' kind of feeling. Also, I am MORE than willing to wait until I am married until I actually 'complete' the act. Ladies, what say you?
Girls (at least me) would NOT feel that "holy cow he's a creeper" feeling at all. It sounds like whenever you do select who you want to sleep with, she will most likely be very understanding and happy to do the job! In fact, I'm the first girl my last boyfriend slept with and he was almost 20. The only thing is that it would be better if you were upfront about your virginity, then lying about it like my boyfriend did lol. I got over it, though, because I understand that some guys may feel ashamed (?) about it.
Here's another thing, even if YOU wait, the girl of your dreams may NOT. Don't hold that against her. She may not expect to actually meet someone like you so soon. Something to think about
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Ladies, what say you?
I'd probably find 30 odd too.
