so tired of getting played...how to play a player? (dating, marry)
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Ok you're dating and after a few weeks things seem to be going awesome...except she/he only calls every few days. There's somebody else that they're at least dating. Also, in the first few weeks at least, there's a hunger for knowledge if sparks occured, no sparks, waned interest.
Trust me - I'm a guy, and kind of a player myself, and I go to Bars and Clubs to try to meet hot-looking women.
Most naive girls will hook up with players if the guys are charming and well-dressed enough, but the relationship only lasts a short time, and many hearts are broken. I go out with girls, but never have much of anything long-lasting; honestly that's not what I'm looking for right now.
My advice is pick out the guys that aren't as flashy, or overly-charming toward you. Pick a man that is sensitive, honest, and sincere - irregardless of how he looks or how he dresses.
Dudes like me will usally break your heart. Hook up with a man that is interested in you - not himself. Get a guy that wants committment!!!!!!!
Good advice so far. If you announce on the first or second date that you won't be having sex until you get a ring, a player may stick around just a bit to see if he can change your mind, but most will simply be out of there quickly. In other words, you can only be played if you let yourself be played.
Ditto to never chasing a man. And if he's a player, run away from him fast. While you might be able to capture a player's interest for a while, you're never going to tame him. So don't even try. Chances are, he's not worth catching to marry anyway.
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so far, I have met 2 players - both older than me and well-established. I got my heartbroken once.
I guess I was/am too naive..and I am really trying to be smarter in this game...
how I can tell if he is a player? any signs?
ps. guys on this forum please don't send me msgs if you have the same motive as a player!!!
if I can tell, how I can play a player?
any female players on here?
ps. female players, do send me msgs or reply to this thread, thanks!!
Don't lower yourself and start playing "games"
Just take the high road and be open and honest.
We don't need anymore game playing garbage.
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It's called "a taste of your own medicine" and it's been around forever.
