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Read "why men love *******" if you go to borders.com you can get the author...this book changes everything and gives woman the power back. a must read.
Life certainly won't be boring, with all the players and bad boy types you can attract and likely keep.........for a while.
Ten years from now, the author and publisher should face a class action lawsuit.
ps. female players, do send me msgs or reply to this thread, thanks!!
I'm not a player. A player likes to play games. Usually mind games. Making a person think and feel that they're the only one or making them feel like they're 'special'. If I'm in a place, where I feel like 'playing the field', I will let a guy know UP FRONT (key words) that he's not the only one I'm dating or talking to. If he doesn't want to be in that type of situation with me, then he has the option of keepin' it movin' that way ----- > .
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Originally Posted by Chowhound Don't lower yourself and start playing "games"
Just take the high road and be open and honest.
We don't need anymore game playing garbage.
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Originally Posted by DennyCrane
I agree. The sexes already have enough trouble trusting one another. The men who are players don't respect women. By playing the same games, you only make women look even more untrustworthy in the eyes of men. It might feel good at first to even the score, but in the long run, it just makes things worse. Men have enough negative stereotypes about women. Don't add to them.
She'll just end up in ten years seeing a decent guy she "played" in a good, solid marriage to someone who she thinks she's better than.
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Originally Posted by michelleleigh
Dont do it, you will only feel rottten, afterwards.
Good advice, but a little too old fashioned for anyone born after 1940. Such guys are just too "awesome" to play games with let alone "play". I suspect that instead, she'll just hurt some guys who were completely on the level.
I don't understand what you're saying, perhaps you didn't understand what you quoted. Most players will eventually give up if the girl doesn't give it up...
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Originally Posted by picklejuice
Players tend to study you. They'll mimic your likes and dislikes. Even down to what you like to eat for b'fast. And when they talk to you, they'll be sure to mention those facts at least once a day to to convince you. Many will play a sympathy card. Make you think they were made fun of in school or whatever. Once they've figured out you are that kind of woman (for the underdog).
They will cater to your every need. If you are PMS, it's chocolate for you-that kind of thing. They will invest hours talking and listening in hopes they'll get the ultimate prize. And once they get to your goods, they will be off in a flash. Their ultimate goal is self-gratification and ego stroking, not a meaningful relationship.
Sentences to watch out for: "You're hot!" and dumb stuff like, "Whoa, Batman and Batgirl riding on the Batbike...hot!" Cheesy, stupid stuff like that dead giveaway. No real man uses such lingo. Just stupid arse jerks who can't get a woman the respectable, honest way.
Go with your gut instinct, too. And don't feel bad about telling one to take a hike and get perm lost.
First two paragraphs are accurate...I completely disagree with the cheesey pickup lines. I guess it depends how you describe a player...A guy who only wants to have an one night stand I don't consider to be a player...I feel a player is someone you described perfectly in your first paragraph. I lastly disagree with "trust your gut"...Girls who trust their gut is what allows players to thrive...
ps. female players, do send me msgs or reply to this thread, thanks!!
Follow the golden rule and never give a man more than he is giving you. Let him call you, chase you, and buy you dinner. Do not get physical with him, and if he is just looking for sex, eventually he will disappear.
Otherwise, if you do mess around with him, never have intercourse. Let him please you, but never let that magic wand in your body! That way, when he does pull the disappearing act (and ladies, you all know what that is), you can smile and say, "Oh, well, at least I got mine!"
Follow the golden rule and never give a man more than he is giving you. Let him call you, chase you, and buy you dinner. Do not get physical with him, and if he is just looking for sex, eventually he will disappear.
Otherwise, if you do mess around with him, never have intercourse. Let him please you, but never let that magic wand in your body! That way, when he does pull the disappearing act (and ladies, you all know what that is), you can smile and say, "Oh, well, at least I got mine!"
I totally agree....been there done that...he played me...i played another....and what it does it get you? nowhere.
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