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Do you really want to be a player or you are just fed up with not getting stability and or love and want to "give up"? I don't think you can be played if you aren't looking for love, stability, or self value from someone else.
But I'll tell you very basic things about a player's game:
Players don't wait to be called by someone. They are already with the next person and don't care if they get a call or not. If they call and the player isn't busy, then great. If not, oh well. They don't anylize what's happening with the person. They either don't really care or they already know what the other person is thinking because they chose the person based on signs that they are a certain type of person that would be easy to play. A player's confidence is high so matter what someone else's opinion is or the status of any relationship.
Players don't compromise. They are in it for thier own fun and pleasure and that's it.
There. If you want to get for yourself and stop trying to get such-and-such a guy to love you, then do it. If you really want love, none of this applies. Being a player is as much a waste of time as being played if you really want love.
Guys are frustrated with me sometimes because they want to me fall for their lines hook, line and sinker.
I say hold off of the sex, if that's what he's looking for a doesn't get it soon enough then he will be on to the next one.
Time reveals truth. He tell you he wants to just settle down and get married, etc. If his expectations are so easy going he'd be married, right? He's just telling you according to age and approach what he thinks you want to hear.
I'm with the guys on inconsistent calling. That is also coupled with calling you at strange times during the day or crazy hours at night. He's got a girl.
Don't believe everything you're told. Take things with a grain of salt.
I.have a? I'm n a stupid situation Ive been dealing w/ this Guy 4:2 yrs now. & my heart says I love him but I'm tired now he do what he want when he want he's took the time to meet my parents I've met his parents &coming 2 find out he's married I know its not. Just me & the wife I've listen 2 his messages & voicemail he just lie & say it's a case bc. He's a detective.he have 2 manipulate ppl. 2 Solve the case he says he's not married. Everything he said was a lie how do I let him go I'm tired of being disappointed I want to let go y is it so hard when I know he's with other women
You are only as vulnerable as you let yourself be.
What does that mean? Instead of being cryptic about give her some pointers. Should she put up her walls and give up on dating altogether? She surely won't be vulnerable that way.
1. Be the woman he can't resist.
2. Be the woman he can't get.
When he sees he can "get" you, he's gonna pull out the stops, break the emergency glass and bring the double A game, but stand strong, don't give in. That's how it's done.
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