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Originally Posted by sillygirlintown
if I can tell, how I can play a player?
Why would you want to waste time on a player is a better question. If you invest time in one, you'll get what you deserve.
I read a post on here that said players like it easy. Just proves what losers they are. Player is code for 'Loser in love because I can't get anything worth keeping'.
I have no doubt. It's the quality of woman that's [mumbles incoherently].
Players have the same qualities as a non player though. Plus women will go for guys that ask them out now that shy guy who is really interested in them for LTR.
Why would you want to waste time on a player is a better question. If you invest time in one, you'll get what you deserve.
I read a post on here that said players like it easy. Just proves what losers they are. Player is code for 'Loser in love because I can't get anything worth keeping'.
You could say that but maybe easy is what they want. Maybe they don't want an exclusive relationship and just want casual sex. My problem with players is that they aren't honest.
I am old school and extremely new at being single, I was recently asked out on a date by a man I've known for 20+ years but haven't seen for 15+ years, he took me out to dinner and of course proceeded to a popular lookout spot where people go to make out, we talked for a bit and i then asked him to take me home which he did, for the next week or so after he was all about wanting to hang out, texting and calling me constantly well needless to say i eventually gave in to him and we had sex after the first time sleeping with him(i really find this man sexy and attractive)when i text him i get no reply for hours when i do get a reply its usually when he wants another piece of ass! i really thought his intentions were honest and real i am totally into this man and when i am with him he seems to be 100% into me, i just don't understand the dating rules of today? I'm always assured i am very attractive, i am 5'2" tall 110 lbs with an athletic and slim build and i am 100% old school! I realize and have been told i need to dump this guy but i kinda would like to give him a taste of his own medicine and eventually let him think he don't realize what he's got until it's gone because once i walk away i don't come back! If anybody has any suggestions on how to play this player i'm all ears?
I am old school and extremely new at being single, I was recently asked out on a date by a man I've known for 20+ years but haven't seen for 15+ years, he took me out to dinner and of course proceeded to a popular lookout spot where people go to make out, we talked for a bit and i then asked him to take me home which he did, for the next week or so after he was all about wanting to hang out, texting and calling me constantly well needless to say i eventually gave in to him and we had sex after the first time sleeping with him(i really find this man sexy and attractive)when i text him i get no reply for hours when i do get a reply its usually when he wants another piece of ass! i really thought his intentions were honest and real i am totally into this man and when i am with him he seems to be 100% into me, i just don't understand the dating rules of today? I'm always assured i am very attractive, i am 5'2" tall 110 lbs with an athletic and slim build and i am 100% old school! I realize and have been told i need to dump this guy but i kinda would like to give him a taste of his own medicine and eventually let him think he don't realize what he's got until it's gone because once i walk away i don't come back! If anybody has any suggestions on how to play this player i'm all ears?
Agreed. if you play games, it a chance you'll lose. And sometimes it's best not to try and play with someone who's played the game longer, and may play it better. Then you end up embarrassed to hell.
So you stop speaking to the guy. Delete his contact info, and don't bother with him if he calls. And this will help you. You can move on and not waste too much energy on this fellow. Because chances are, if he doesn't seem to show you much attention, except for sex, he probably doesn't care much for you. So he doesn't care about losing you. he will be sad to lose the sex, but far as having you as a girlfriend or friend, probably won't care about that.
You can't make people care for you, if they don't seem to. And when you leave, they'll be over it quickly, as they weren't attached anyhow. So leave. But do it for your sake, so you don't waste your time, and get in deeper, and then it's harder to leave + more upsetting.
So don't play a game. Don't try to do things to get his attention. Just drop him, and don't put up with the disrespect.
I know a girl in this situation a year ago. She was with a guy who didn't care for her. She tried to play games and gain the upper hand, but she never did in 2 years of being his booty-call. He held on the power because he didn't care about her. She was the one who was stuck on him. Finally, when she felt disrespected to the extreme - for her, she left. Not to get his attention, but for her own sake. The guy doesn't care most likely.
Wow. So not responding to every text you get within hours makes you a playa?
Gosh darn underachieving millennials.
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Wow. So not responding to every text you get within hours makes you a playa?
Then call me the player of the year.
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