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I will say however, if he is still heavy into porn, you're screwed. It's a mind poison that tricks the brain into believing you have sex with multiple, falsely hot, women in one sitting. It desensitizes so much that even if you were sexually attractive, which you're not right now, sorry to be harsh, you can't compare to the computer images and hell still be disinterested
OP is long gone dprince... thread was resurrected from a couple years ago.
That said, I think there was more happening in that relationship then just weight gain by the wife. Witholding sex shows a definate emotional detachment and that is deeper than just physical.
Four years after the original post I would hope they have either reconciled and the situation is no longer an issue or they have divorced and moved on.
OP is long gone dprince... thread was resurrected from a couple years ago.
That said, I think there was more happening in that relationship then just weight gain by the wife. Witholding sex shows a definate emotional detachment and that is deeper than just physical.
Dump him. Solution seems rather obvious to me. It's not like there's a ring on your finger.
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