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Old 01-26-2009, 08:35 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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There's nothing wrong with a little, "Right now" as long as it's done safely. Everyone has their needs and human contact is something desired by most everyone. Everyone wants to be validated, accepted, loved and with that comes sexual desires. It's normal. Sometimes you can go long periods of not wanting to date or commit, but that doesn't mean your yearnings and desires go away- Infact, I'm confident a little wild, crazy, adventurous, headboard banging raw S-E-X is healthy for everyone ~ mentally, emotionally and physcially.

Just be safe about it.
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:41 AM
 
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There's nothing wrong with a little, "Right now" as long as it's done safely. Everyone has their needs and human contact is something desired by most everyone. Everyone wants to be validated, accepted, loved and with that comes sexual desires. It's normal. Sometimes you can go long periods of not wanting to date or commit, but that doesn't mean your yearnings and desires go away- Infact, I'm confident a little wild, crazy, adventurous, headboard banging raw S-E-X is healthy for everyone ~ mentally, emotionally and physcially.

Just be safe about it.
Sometimes you just want to pound. Or be pounded.
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:42 AM
 
Location: SC
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When I was younger there was a point right after my divorce where I Did what I wanted, who I wanted, when I wanted (but it took me longer than knowing them for an hour)... Now I look back & realize it was a way for me to get a man to touch me, to get attention without worrying about getting my heart broke.
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:43 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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There's nothing wrong with a little, "Right now" as long as it's done safely. Everyone has their needs and human contact is something desired by most everyone. Everyone wants to be validated, accepted, loved and with that comes sexual desires. It's normal. Sometimes you can go long periods of not wanting to date or commit, but that doesn't mean your yearnings and desires go away- Infact, I'm confident a little wild, crazy, adventurous, headboard banging raw S-E-X is healthy for everyone ~ mentally, emotionally and physcially.

Just be safe about it.
Couldnt have said it better myself!!!!!!
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:43 AM
 
Location: SC
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There's nothing wrong with a little, "Right now" as long as it's done safely. Everyone has their needs and human contact is something desired by most everyone. Everyone wants to be validated, accepted, loved and with that comes sexual desires. It's normal. Sometimes you can go long periods of not wanting to date or commit, but that doesn't mean your yearnings and desires go away- Infact, I'm confident a little wild, crazy, adventurous, headboard banging raw S-E-X is healthy for everyone ~ mentally, emotionally and physcially.

Just be safe about it.
yeppers
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:47 AM
 
Location: Cincinnati, Ohio
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Sometimes things just happen. Given the right environment an hour is an easy barrier to stay within.

G Man
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:47 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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The only scary part is what a few did mention: You don't know everyone and who knows where they've been, what they have. What if someone has no conscious and is on a mission to spread HIV or something ?? Ack!!! SCAREY !!!!!

You hope people are honest and not a complete wacked out freak ... I mean there was a girl in NYC recently who spent a little time witha guy, left with him, and was found in a dumpster the next day ... I'm sure she had no clue he had another side to him ...
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:47 AM
 
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Thats crazy. Can we say 'hello STDs'???
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Old 01-26-2009, 08:56 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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The only scary part is what a few did mention: You don't know everyone and who knows where they've been, what they have. What if someone has no conscious and is on a mission to spread HIV or something ?? Ack!!! SCAREY !!!!!

You hope people are honest and not a complete wacked out freak ... I mean there was a girl in NYC recently who spent a little time witha guy, left with him, and was found in a dumpster the next day ... I'm sure she had no clue he had another side to him ...
Bottom line is an in my experience you can tell, not 100% but what is? For example the last girl I did it with, never seen her before no, but she was highly attractive/healthy, the crowd she was with looked heatlthy.
If on the slim chance she did have something, protection was used (as you always should).
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Old 01-26-2009, 09:04 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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Ya, I tend to navigate towards people with sparkling, warm and funny personalities, lots of friends, close to their family and booming accomplished careers. That's all first-meeting conversation also- If someone has a career they are proud of, they talk about it- "So, what do you do" ... And, if they are close to their family, chances are that comes up in casual conversation also.
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