If you could be married today, would you? (guy, husband, family) - Relationships -Dating, marriage, boyfriends, girlfriends, men, women, friends, attraction ... - Page 3 - City-Data Forum

moonshadow · 03-04-2009, 07:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by STT Resident

.. "Well I was supposed to get married today but I just didn't feel like it ..."

and to answer the OP

I haven't had an offer too good to refuse yet and I'm more than happy with the choices I've made.

Oildog · 03-04-2009, 07:15 AM

Not really...still haven't found anyone I'm willing to give half my possessions to yet.

Anu2 · 03-04-2009, 07:18 AM

Yes, I would be married today if I could. However, it would definitely have to be to the RIGHT person. I'd rather be single then settle down with someone who doesn't make me happy.

Female 32

Mathguy · 03-04-2009, 07:25 AM

Yes - Male 38

Marriage suits me and I know what it takes to have a good marriage. Obviously, it's not going to happen soon...maybe it never will....but it's definitely something I'm interested in.

2mares · 03-04-2009, 07:32 AM

No. Female 46. I cant think of one reason to marry again.

amanda0808 · 03-04-2009, 10:08 AM

Female, early 30s. I like being single and don't want to get married any time soon. I'm doing a fine job raising my son by myself.

country pride · 03-04-2009, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by njmike

It's nice to have someone to talk to, go out with every so often, etc. but that's all I want to commit to right now.

You are right. Companionship is one thing, but commitment is another.......

city_data_poster · 03-04-2009, 10:28 AM

Sure! Absolutely!

Stac2007 · 03-04-2009, 10:32 AM

Its so fummy to hear young women say with attitude they don't want to get married but I can't tell you how many I know who wished they were not so hung up on their idenity when they were young and grabbed Mr. Right. I guess thats the reason the good lord created a lot of cats.

Mathguy · 03-04-2009, 11:41 AM

I hear a lot of people say no, they are happy being single, raising thier kids etc. and I think that's great. However, if you find that right person...life is so much better, easier etc. there really is no comparison. (I suspect a lot of people have had the *bad* kinds of relationships and as such don't have a positive frame of reference)

For me, despite not currently dating, it's a worthy goal to try to perhaps find that again because I know what I'm missing. I hope I never get so jaded that I start thinking that what I have now is good enough.