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Tell you what to do.......IF you really want to be accepted without rejection and want to be nosy......Sign up as a fictional name and get a pic off the net of a beautiful girl and then see if he accepts!
Hey good thinking. Some would think this terribly sneaky, methinks. But it's exactly what I'd do, too!
Well, my boyfriend has a Facebook and I have a Myspace. Neither of us are online that much so it's never really been a huge deal. I do have pics of him on my page and vice versa but I only have friends on my page so they all know him anyway. I'm wondering why you even have a FB if the people on it aren't really your friends.
In regards to your situation, if it bothers you that much tell him it bothers you. There's no point in walking around with hurt feelings if you're not going to address the issue. If you have no concerns with him cheating - I don't see why this bothers you. If you do have concerns with him cheating, then I think FB is the least of your worries, unless you're just looking for proof.
On a side note, it annoys me to no end when girlfriends post pics of themselves in their bf's comments or leave little graphic "I love you messages" I guess they're trying to mark their territory .
If I had a boyfriend, which I don't at the moment, I would give him my msn, twitter, this forum link and name I have here, etc, etc. Mostly because our relationship would be based on trust. He can check out any of my details whenever he likes. I never post anything on twitter, but I would give it to him anyways. I don't have facebook because I don't need a blast from the past. If I did, I would give him that too. If other people are looking at my profile, why can't he? If he doesn't want to, which is perfectly normal, I would give him the name anyway and let him decide. If I found out he had a profile he hadn't told me about, I would think he doesn't trust me, and feel absurdly hurt.
If I had a boyfriend, which I don't at the moment, I would give him my msn, twitter, this forum link and name I have here, etc, etc. Mostly because our relationship would be based on trust. He can check out any of my details whenever he likes. I never post anything on twitter, but I would give it to him anyways. I don't have facebook because I don't need a blast from the past. If I did, I would give him that too. If other people are looking at my profile, why can't he? If he doesn't want to, which is perfectly normal, I would give him the name anyway and let him decide. If I found out he had a profile he hadn't told me about, I would think he doesn't trust me, and feel absurdly hurt.
I guess I have the opposite hangup.
My ex was not on this forum, but he was on another forum. I was able to read his posts, but despite my giving him a link to my profile, he never seemed interested in reading any of mine :/
Look! Since you have asked to be added and he has given you this silly excuse - something is up. Maybe he is just flirting with others? maybe it's more serious? perhaps he vents about his relationship? It may be a big deal ... it may not. But the point is you have asked - he has all but said no. What does that mean, really? I find it alarming that he doesn't want you to "see" him in an arena that is very public (private profile or not) ... there are few secrets on the net.
I'd suggest you log on to facebook and request to join as his friend. If he refuses break off your relationship with him. Then move on as quickly as possible.
Best wishes.
My ex was not on this forum, but he was on another forum. I was able to read his posts, but despite my giving him a link to my profile, he never seemed interested in reading any of mine :/
Sounds like my ex too. I would tell him everywhere I went online as a regular, and he would never even bother looking me up. Lol. I didn't care if he didn't , I just wanted to know where he was.
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