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Agreed - protect yourself at all costs. If she's willing to jump straight to divorce after only a few months of marriage, I wonder if she was planning it all along, for the alimony.
Yepppppppppppp!
I don't have any positive good impressions about her at all.
She probably has a Bad-Boy or two or three or four (you get the idea) to take the OP's place later.
I don't have any positive good impressions about her at all.
She probably has a Bad-Boy or two or three or four (you get the idea) to take the OP's place later.
Guh, such encouraging words. Though I can't imagine this happened overnight. I wonder if she was even sure she wanted to get married in the first place.
Can she actually get alimony after only 5 months of marriage?
get a good lawyer now.
file now.
do not wait for the truck to hit you.
the person that is filing a law suit against you is not your friend.
you just thought they were. no more than the pet anaconda that sleeps with you.
50% marriage failure, 26% of guys did not see it coming
75% divorces filed by women.
Last edited by Huckleberry3911948; 07-07-2009 at 07:49 PM..
My wife wants to divorce me. She dropped the bomb two days ago. I am overwhelmed with emotions. I just want to know something I can do when I get lonely and want to reach out to her. I have been relying on my friends and family. I just want help for when I sit at work and think about her and miss her.
My heart is torn out of my chest.
I don't really know what else to say. I just want some encouraging words...people say it will get better but I feel like it won't...
ablau, I'm so sorry for the pain you are in! You need to understand, you are in shock right now - this kind of news is like hearing your best friend was just killed in a horrible accident. You need time to absorb the reality of your situation. For right now, just try to be good to yourself - drink and eat to nourish your body and surround yourself by friends. It WILL get better and you will survive, you just have to take things one day at a time for a while.
Wow. Your words seem to depict the way my husband behaved when I told him.
I am so sorry for what you are going through. Not long after, he raked me over the coals. I hope things work out for the two of you, but if they do not, I hope for a civil parting.
My advice is to make sure you do nothing that you will regreatt later. At some poit you will need to come to terms with teh divorce and still feel good about yourself.Its easy to decide to get revenge during the process but that usaully end with both coming out with little and never coming to terms long after they except the fact.
My advice is to make sure you do nothing that you will regreatt later. At some poit you will need to come to terms with teh divorce and still feel good about yourself.Its easy to decide to get revenge during the process but that usaully end with both coming out with little and never coming to terms long after they except the fact.
She will go for it and if the OP "just goes with the flow" he'll "lose badly".
She has already shown to take the divorce initiative which was planned so what's to stop her from taking this to the hilt with most of the laws and judges on her side?
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) to take the OP's place later.
