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Old 08-24-2009, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I know right, they don't know the "Outside the job" me-lol
Well maybe you should talk to the other dudes and let her over hear your conversation...then she will be like oh he's a perve too. lol
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:27 PM
 
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Well maybe you should talk to the other dudes and let her over hear your conversation...then she will be like oh he's a perve too. lol
Or just let her read some of his posts here
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:34 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Or just let her read some of his posts here
I know right. lmao Like how he hates single mom's, doesn't like broke women, dmv girl was weird, he needs ac, likes nick at nite,(he kinda acts like Jack from three's company), doesn't understand why women don't understand his sports. lol I think i missed a few.
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:38 PM
 
Location: Land of 10000 Lakes +
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Awww take it in the way that she likes you enough to feel shy in front of you and I believe she respects you and/or whats you to have a good opinion of her. I would be flattered rather than insulted. However, when I was young, and people whispered dirty little things, I'll admit I felt left out. But now I know better.
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:41 PM
 
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Default I find it very insulting that a female co-worker doesn' feel right talking about sex around me but...

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Can do around it other guys. HUH??

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Never anyone act like this around me before
Women always do this in front of the office eunuchs. When did you get the testicular transplant?

Or did you get some particularly useful advice on this site?
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:45 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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You certainly have your share of problems with female co-workers.
In another thread you reported that another female co-worker was to nice.
Now honestly, what will make you happy?? Sorry, I had to point out the obvious.


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Can do around it other guys. HUH?? I told her-"you don't have to watch what you say around me just be you. She said it's because I always treat her respect and don't like that around her and I was like-"OH COME ON!!!


This has been bothering me all day that someone would think I'm too STRAIGHT LACED to talk about sex or anything else. We were eating lunch and she was about to say something related to sex to one guy and then turned to me and said-"oh let me catch I want to be respectful since I'm around me.


Never anyone act like this around me before
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Old 08-24-2009, 10:17 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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I know right. lmao Like how he hates single mom's, doesn't like broke women, dmv girl was weird, he needs ac, likes nick at nite,(he kinda acts like Jack from three's company), doesn't understand why women don't understand his sports. lol I think i missed a few.
To give him some credit, watching sports with SOME women can be a painful experience.

Of course, this can be a painful experience with men who don't know sports either.
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Old 08-25-2009, 07:12 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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This has been bothering me all day that someone would think I'm too STRAIGHT LACED to talk about sex or anything else. We were eating lunch and she was about to say something related to sex to one guy and then turned to me and said-"oh let me catch I want to be respectful since I'm around me.
Try keeping your mind on work when you're at work. Obviously you're having a problem with that as this petty issue had, as you say, "been bothering me all day." If the fact that a female coworker who doesn't want to talk about sexual matters with you during the lunch break is cause to bother you all day then obviously your priorities are very misplaced.
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Old 08-25-2009, 07:14 AM
 
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Are you a lot older than her?

You really should not be talking about sex crap at work anyway.
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Old 08-25-2009, 08:35 AM
 
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Maybe she's just being nice. I'm guessing that she thinks you're needy and that talking about sex would encourage you.

After all, you've already admitted basically approaching her and saying, "Hey, how come you haven't exchanged sexy banter with me? Huh? Huh?" She's probably too creeped out for words.
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