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Old 08-24-2009, 08:01 PM
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Can do around it other guys. HUH?? I told her-"you don't have to watch what you say around me just be you. She said it's because I always treat her respect and don't like that around her and I was like-"OH COME ON!!!


This has been bothering me all day that someone would think I'm too STRAIGHT LACED to talk about sex or anything else. We were eating lunch and she was about to say something related to sex to one guy and then turned to me and said-"oh let me catch I want to be respectful since I'm around me.


Never anyone act like this around me before
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Old 08-24-2009, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Well first I would ask her if she likes Pina Coladas, and if the answer is yes, find out if she likes getting caught in the rain? Is she not into yoga? Does she have half a brain? Does she like making love at midnight? In the dunes of a cape? Is she not much into health food, but into champagne? If so, then you’ve got to meet her by tomorrow noon, and cut through all this red tape, at a bar called O'Malley's, where she’ll turn into your sex freak.
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Old 08-24-2009, 08:35 PM
 
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Can do around it other guys. HUH?? I told her-"you don't have to watch what you say around me just be you. She said it's because I always treat her respect and don't like that around her and I was like-"OH COME ON!!!
Don't like what around her?

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This has been bothering me all day that someone would think I'm too STRAIGHT LACED to talk about sex or anything else. We were eating lunch and she was about to say something related to sex to one guy and then turned to me and said-"oh let me catch I want to be respectful since I'm around me.


Let her catch what? She wants to be respectful since she is around her?

What the fuzzle?
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Old 08-24-2009, 08:39 PM
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Don't like what around her?

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Let her catch what? She wants to be respectful since she is around her?

What the fuzzle?


She said I always show her respect and carry myself like a gentleman and she wants to do the same and not talk nasty around me to other guys in the department, I was like"say whatever you want I have heard it all "
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Old 08-24-2009, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Washington, DC & New York
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Well, I can say that it's a good thing that she doesn't work for me, nor do the other guys, or there would be an in-service with the HR Veep to discuss appropriate/inappropriate conversations in the workplace. I would actually distance myself from such talk in the workplace, since it can blow up and be misconstrued. And, nothing is a career killer more than lawsuits or allegations of sexually explicit conversations, unless one works for a 1-900-number call center.

But, some women do not discuss topics with certain men, and in the workplace, I'd not encourage said talk, seriously.
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Old 08-24-2009, 08:51 PM
 
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She said I always show her respect and carry myself like a gentleman and she wants to do the same and not talk nasty around me to other guys in the department, I was like"say whatever you want I have heard it all "
Ah, ok. Well, she may not be comfortable with you. Whatever the reason, I wouldn't take it so personally.
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:04 PM
 
Location: B'ham
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Ah, ok. Well, she may not be comfortable with you. Whatever the reason, I wouldn't take it so personally.
Agreed. Besides, why would you want to hear the sexual exploits of a woman you really don't know? It would probably tarnish your view of her.
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:07 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Can do around it other guys. HUH?? I told her-"you don't have to watch what you say around me just be you. She said it's because I always treat her respect and don't like that around her and I was like-"OH COME ON!!!


This has been bothering me all day that someone would think I'm too STRAIGHT LACED to talk about sex or anything else. We were eating lunch and she was about to say something related to sex to one guy and then turned to me and said-"oh let me catch I want to be respectful since I'm around me.


Never anyone act like this around me before
Apparently she does not know you. lmao...she thinks your a holy roller that hasn't had sex? She doesn't know u.
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:11 PM
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Apparently she does not know you. lmao...she thinks your a holy roller that hasn't had sex? She doesn't know u.


I know right, they don't know the "Outside the job" me-lol
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Old 08-24-2009, 09:25 PM
 
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Apparently she does not know you. lmao...she thinks your a holy roller that hasn't had sex? She doesn't know u.
One out of two works. I doubt he is a holy roller.
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