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With an older man, it takes longer and more effort to ejaculate, so what you are seeing is not unusual. You will know when he comes, trust me. But whether he does or doesn't, he is enjoying it just the same!
Well he doesn't reach orgasm at all, not just ejaculating. We have sex for hours and hours but still he doesn't. Then the next day we would pick up where we left off the previous day and after 30 mins or so he may reach orgasm. By this time I'm sore beyond belief. It's not fun at all.
I don't like marathon sex when it leads to sore parts either. What about find some things that really get him hot so he's a few steps closer before you start in or if it's in the morning tell him he has to wait for you and tell him something very naughty to think about all day. Go without panties, wear something sexy, tell him you want him to bend you over the dresser, whatever to make him think about it so he'll be more revved up.
Are you getting satisfied with the marathon sex or is it getting boring after a while as in maybe you think ahead of time that he's not going to finish so you aren't as into it?
Some of you are being way too hard on Men who can't "perform" to your liking.
Then with many overprocessing takes place to perhaps create drama (who knows - lol) when he tries in other ways to try to assure to keep her pleased.
For instance, who does most of the work in intercourse? Men
Who on the most part (although there are some exceptions) just lies there in that time? You answer this one that I'm afraid will be like getting responses from angry puppies - lol!
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I don't like marathon sex when it leads to sore parts either. What about find some things that really get him hot so he's a few steps closer before you start in or if it's in the morning tell him he has to wait for you and tell him something very naughty to think about all day. Go without panties, wear something sexy, tell him you want him to bend you over the dresser, whatever to make him think about it so he'll be more revved up.
Are you getting satisfied with the marathon sex or is it getting boring after a while as in maybe you think ahead of time that he's not going to finish so you aren't as into it?
I have done all you have suggested and more. I have tried everything from sex all over the house; kitchen bar, on the sofa, bathroom, you name it we have done it. He has no problem getting "it" up at all, infact it's like he's always "up" and he always seem excited and enjoying himself so much during intercourse but I'm getting insecure because I have always believed that a man is sexually satisfied only when he reaches an orgasm. Like Woof said, I think he focuses more on pleasing me and he has mentioned that several times. But I want to please him too and not just for him but for myself as well.
Not that I'm bothered, but I would like him to tell me and I know he won't.
I have never seen him pop a pill, but at 53, he has much more sexual energy than most guys I have ever dated. He's the oldest man I have ever dated and is 23 years older than me. He wants to have sex almost daily/constantly, but the problem is he rarely ejaculates.
Aren't these the signs of someone who uses viagra?
Instead of ranting on c-d, you should be sending a thank you letter to Pfizer.
Well he doesn't reach orgasm at all, not just ejaculating. We have sex for hours and hours but still he doesn't. Then the next day we would pick up where we left off the previous day and after 30 mins or so he may reach orgasm. By this time I'm sore beyond belief. It's not fun at all.
Yup, I'd be suspicious too.
Bottom line: if it's more than you want (if it's making you sore, sounds like it), either invest in lubricant, or tell him that you just don't want it quite that much/for that long. Frankly, hours and hours every day can get tedious. It's great you want to make him happy, but if it's not working for you then he needs to respect that.
There are SO many ways I could turn this situation perverted but, in my infinite wisdom, I'm going to rerfrain and be good.
Yes, he's more than likely taking Viagra. BUT he's not that OLD either and he may be very verile and ready to just have some play time - stop complaining woman!! LOL
I have done all you have suggested and more. I have tried everything from sex all over the house; kitchen bar, on the sofa, bathroom, you name it we have done it. He has no problem getting "it" up at all, infact it's like he's always "up" and he always seem excited and enjoying himself so much during intercourse but I'm getting insecure because I have always believed that a man is sexually satisfied only when he reaches an orgasm. Like Woof said, I think he focuses more on pleasing me and he has mentioned that several times. But I want to please him too and not just for him but for myself as well.
Maybe I'll just relax and enjoy myself.
If he has one orgasm, maybe another later in the day, that's plenty. He obviously likes your young tender body and it is driving him nuts. Are you sure he is not married? Have you been to his house?
Do not worry about pleasing him. Sounds like he is pleasing himself.. lol!
And don't be afraid to say, "Okay, that's enough for now. I'm getting a little sore." You do need to say that with some men.
Yes. Lack of ejaculation does not mean he did not have an orgasm.
Seriously, just enjoy it.
Good point there Susan er..... Jeepgirl118.
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