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So, at work yesterday, a very handsome salesman came to our dept. to work on a project he represents with his company. I didn't talk to him directly, but there were several moments of eye contact. I felt a little awkward, because I work in a medical setting and not always looking my best (I'm at work, after all!), but whatever.
He had been gone for a while, and I was working alone when I thought to myself, I should've given him my number, oh well! Then, out of the blue, his card appeared taped to the bulletin board, so I sent him a very short email asking if he'd be interested in meeting up for a drink.
I haven't heard from him yet, but I wonder if I should've done that? I figure what have I got to lose, the worst that could happen is he's not interested or has a gf/wife, etc.
So, at work yesterday, a very handsome salesman came to our dept. to work on a project he represents with his company. I didn't talk to him directly, but there were several moments of eye contact. I felt a little awkward, because I work in a medical setting and not always looking my best (I'm at work, after all!), but whatever.
He had been gone for a while, and I was working alone when I thought to myself, I should've given him my number, oh well! Then, out of the blue, his card appeared taped to the bulletin board, so I sent him a very short email asking if he'd be interested in meeting up for a drink.
I haven't heard from him yet, but I wonder if I should've done that? I figure what have I got to lose, the worst that could happen is he's not interested or has a gf/wife, etc.
any thoughts?
Good move, you have nothing to lose. That's a definiton of assertive in my book. A lot of women would like to think that they are, but would never have balls to pull a thing like that.
Good move, you have nothing to lose. That's a definiton of assertive in my book. A lot of women would like to think that they are, but would never have balls to pull a thing like that.
So, at work yesterday, a very handsome salesman came to our dept. to work on a project he represents with his company. I didn't talk to him directly, but there were several moments of eye contact. I felt a little awkward, because I work in a medical setting and not always looking my best (I'm at work, after all!), but whatever.
He had been gone for a while, and I was working alone when I thought to myself, I should've given him my number, oh well! Then, out of the blue, his card appeared taped to the bulletin board, so I sent him a very short email asking if he'd be interested in meeting up for a drink.
I haven't heard from him yet, but I wonder if I should've done that? I figure what have I got to lose, the worst that could happen is he's not interested or has a gf/wife, etc.
any thoughts?
Yeah that was perfectly fine. The worst he'll say is no thanks or sorry I have a gf or a wife. Personally if I was single and someone did that to me, I would accept.
By the way, there are some of us guys who will accept a woman who is not looking her best. Yes we know women like to look their best for us, but I'd rather spend time with a woman who is being herself rather than trying to look her best and be perfect.
But was it taped to the board for you, or for some business purpose?
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