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After having a lot of bad experiences here and a couple bad one night stands, I decided to focus on older women and I have been dating a woman who is 42, so far everything is good but she is not interested in casual sex and she wants us to get to know each other slowly, so far, I think there is a lot of potential for a good relationship but things are moving very slow, no physical contact or sexual contact whatsoever..
Now, I met a girl on a dating website, she is 30 and we used to text maybe a few times a day, I honestly did not think we had anything in common, anyways, I met her at a restaurant and we had a great time, it was not a date though, I thought we were going to hang out and go home. Anyways, I felt a strong connection and chemistry right away and after we got done, she asked me if I wanted to go to a bar, we sat at the bar, had a few drinks and everything went fine, then she brought me back to her house and asked me if I wanted to "cuddle" with her.
It was very hard to resist, anyways, from cuddling, sure enough, one thing led to another but I told her I was not interested in having sex the very first night, she was cool with that!
Anyways, I asked her if she wanted to see me last night and she said YES, so I came to her house and we had sex, this is probably the best sex I have had in years, this girl is VERY, VERY good in bed, I mean, very good and today at work, I was thinking about our night together and I was getting so turned on just thinking about it.
I am waiting for her to text me tonight and if she does, I am definitely coming over to her house. I cancelled a date with an older woman on Thu, because I was so looking forward to being with this girl, so now I am cancelling good dates to be with this woman because she totally blew my mind sexually.
I know she is not the type of person I want to be in a relationship because she has a lot of problems and issues(mostly related to a dysfunctional family) but I do like her and like I said, the sex was incredible and I can see myself coming over to her house everyday, besides the incredible sex , I really enjoy her company What is wrong with me?
Well you blew off a women who does what you wanted, to wait for sex; to have a relationship, who by your defininition is a skank (per your definition in previous posts), and the type of woman you could NEVER respect nor have a relationsip with.
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Is this the kemosabe who speaks about his values and morals??
It looks fuzzy math to me.
Repubocrat and values are as hand in hand as an ape with a coconut. It does not know what to do with the coconut, shakes it up and down, hurls it away and scratches its arse for an itch
I think your problem is that you're so conflicted about sex that you'll reject someone you like with whom you have a great sexual connection for someone who appeals on some intellectual level and behaves the way you think she "should", but doesn't excite you. The latter will ultimately disappoint in a relationship, IMO, whereas the former may actually be the better match.
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It's karma.
