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I think you missed the point. Maybe you should gracefully exit this thread as you're not getting the support you were hoping for.
What makes you think I'm looking for sympathy? I'm not. I was only stating how it is. Will I do that again with the next man (if a break up happens)? No, I will do it on a common day....
What makes you think I'm looking for sympathy? I'm not. I was only stating how it is. Will I do that again with the next man (if a break up happens)? No, I will do it on a common day....
Just the fact that you created the thread in the first place. You were hoping to get a few "You go, girl!" or "Good for you!". Instead, you've been met mostly with scorn and ridicule as it was a craptastic thing to do to someone.
Did this boyfriend give you the "Chris Brown" Hug, or blow up a school while trying to create a meth lab? Did he not take you to see "Twilight" on opening night? What made him such a crappy person to warrant a "f you and this relationship" on Christmas?
Last edited by Organized Mess; 12-25-2009 at 01:18 PM..
Reason: Darn filters...
I guess it was a bit harsh but I just couldn't keep on faking it for a long time. But yeah in the end, I noticed his voice sounded a bit distanced. I'm guessing if it wasn't for the dumping, we would be talking more than 5 minutes.
I guess this is naturally for me as a woman... handling itwithout any sort of melodramatic emotions at all. He was my first but I didn't feel any attachment and to be honest I found this easy.
Regardless of age (people older than her have done this), because she bragged about doing something really crappy to someone and is trying (and failing) to defend her actions. Maybe if she explained what occured during the relationship to inspire such a vengeful act - people may lay off. But in 7 pages she has yet to explain - so until then...
its not about her, its about an impressive group consciousness about our behavior and thinking not her's. this is the best thread i have seen in a long time on the relationship forum.
i will now go on a rep flinging frenzy.
Regardless of age (people older than her have done this), because she bragged about doing something really crappy to someone and is trying (and failing) to defend her actions. Maybe if she explained what occured during the relationship to inspire such a vengeful act - people may lay off. But in 7 pages she has yet to explain - so until then...
Oh this isn't her first thread on this relationship or situation and has planned this for some time (months actually) and it could have been done a long time ago and damned if I'll excuse it because of her age - I was never that immature, or I should say psycho, and downright spiteful at her age to act like this.
Regardless of age (people older than her have done this), because she bragged about doing something really crappy to someone and is trying (and failing) to defend her actions. Maybe if she explained what occured during the relationship to inspire such a vengeful act - people may lay off. But in 7 pages she has yet to explain - so until then...
Irrespective of her transgressions, collective attack on a person is hard to stomach for the receiver.
Oh this isn't her first thread on this relationship or situation and has planned this for some time (months actually) and it could have been done a long time ago and damned if I'll excuse it because of her age - I was never that immature, or I should say psycho, and downright spiteful at her age to act like this.
I'm going to start a thread about breaking up with my boyfriend on the day of his mother's funeral after her battle with breast cancer, which just so happens to coincide with his birthday - all because he didn't take me to see Twilight on opening night. What a douchebag!
Last edited by Organized Mess; 12-25-2009 at 01:52 PM..
Reason: Grammar nazi attack!
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