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Old 01-16-2010, 07:23 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Good luck!
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Old 01-16-2010, 07:29 PM
 
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I say "go for it!" Good luck!
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I am probably going to do it today. I know she atleast likes me enough to talk to me and I certainly know how to make her laugh and smile. Which I think is a great start.

I love your signature quote BTW. So true in every aspect of our lives..
I'm with yankeegirl, go for it and hoping for the best!
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Old 01-16-2010, 07:32 PM
 
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I think you are in the pre-honeymoon honeymoon phase. I suggest you revel in the glow of wanting something desirable before it gets tainted by grubby reality.

You are floating in the dizzying heights of the idealistic phase..... You know that stage where the other person seems perfect? This happens before you get together and find out each others flaws and discover over time that the very things that attracted you to that person are the things that are now annoying the bejeebers out of you. Oh yeah, and all that unresolved stuff from childhood starts to get acted out because the seeking out of familiar feelings is compelling, even if they are unhealthy and the legacy of damage...... Call me cynical or call me psychoanalytic, but don't call be schmultzy.
How about "party pooper?"
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Old 01-16-2010, 08:15 PM
 
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Well, got to work today was about to ask her and my manager interrupted me to clock on early and he stood there and waited until I did. I got another chance a bit later and was interrupted once more by my manager, few minutes later she left and as always stops by to tell me "bye". Then to make the day worse, my manager told me to clock out cause they didnt need me. They had overstaffed for the night and since I was the first on I was the first off. So, I am going to go in earlier tomorrow and not let anything get in the way.

To those of you who think I have her built up or on a pedistal, trust me I dont. I am actually understating how amazing she is. If you knew her you would understand. I know that if she says no then life will go on. I wont be "heartbroken" or depressed.
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Old 01-16-2010, 08:27 PM
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To those of you who think I have her built up or on a pedistal, trust me I dont. I am actually understating how amazing she is. If you knew her you would understand.
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she is 19
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Old 01-16-2010, 10:01 PM
 
Location: At the Lake (in Texas)
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So hurry up and ask her out already! Those of us over 30 don't have time to WAIT! LOL
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Old 01-16-2010, 10:05 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Well, got to work today was about to ask her and my manager interrupted me to clock on early and he stood there and waited until I did. I got another chance a bit later and was interrupted once more by my manager, few minutes later she left and as always stops by to tell me "bye". Then to make the day worse, my manager told me to clock out cause they didnt need me. They had overstaffed for the night and since I was the first on I was the first off. So, I am going to go in earlier tomorrow and not let anything get in the way.

To those of you who think I have her built up or on a pedistal, trust me I dont. I am actually understating how amazing she is. If you knew her you would understand. I know that if she says no then life will go on. I wont be "heartbroken" or depressed.
Be sure to let us know how it goes!
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Old 01-16-2010, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Victoria TX
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Say "I have this opportunity to ask you out, and if I don't take it, I will hate myself forever." You'll be making a truthful statement to her, which is flattering at the same time.
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Old 01-16-2010, 10:30 PM
 
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Say "I have this opportunity to ask you out, and if I don't take it, I will hate myself forever." You'll be making a truthful statement to her, which is flattering at the same time.
Not a bad idea.
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Old 01-16-2010, 10:33 PM
 
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Amazing people come in all ages.
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