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Old 02-22-2010, 04:32 PM
 
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Dude, you need to chill. You said, women don't find you attractive. Clearly, this woman did. You could've had a new playmate.

More likely, she would have just talked and got me to look the other way while she grabbed my wallet, or, more likely, just given me a fake number to make herself feel all happy that at least one guy liked her after being dumped or something, even if it is a guy who she is not in the least bit attracted to.

If a woman is coming to me and trying to talk about anything but business, something is up. And don't feed me any of that "that is not true maybe she thought you were attractive" crap. If a rat climbed on you would you just assume it was a domesticated one looking for a loving home or be cautious and understand that it probably has rabies or something?

Exactly. Any woman approaching me has some ulterior motive, i.e., is up to no good.
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Old 02-22-2010, 04:32 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Are we being "punked" on this forum by betamenlets?
Heh, yes, it would seem. Our gate-keepers must be on a smoke break.
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Old 02-22-2010, 04:39 PM
 
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she came up to me and therefore, I had every right to tell her off. That was not hatred of an entire gender, that was self defense. If a woman shots and kills a man trying to rob her it's not because she hates men, but because she was defending herself.

This woman came up to me and started asking me personal questions like "so, do you live around here?" as if it's any of her business. I just acted accordingly.

Had she have stayed away and left me alone, I would have left her alone as well.
The fact that you are still laughing about her going to the ladies room to cry says a lot about you as a person. Regardless of her reason for coming up to you, calling someone fat and telling them to go to hell is not respectful.

Keep doing what you're doing, though. Sounds like it's working wonders for you.
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Old 02-22-2010, 05:03 PM
 
Location: North America
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I find it amusing that this guy claims to not talk to women and yet he's talking to the women who are replying to his thread
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Old 02-22-2010, 05:07 PM
 
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I saw "The 40 Year old Virgin" in the theatres when it came out, and I remember at one point Steve Carrol's character, the forty year old virgin, says "hey, I respect women! I respect them so much, I don't even talk to them!" and people in the theatre laughed....but I didn't, because that is how I always felt.

I am sorry, but I am one man who feels that the best way for a man to respect women is just to please, LEAVE THEM ALONE. I do not talk to woman socially, do not go to bars and go up to some woman who I do not know (the nerve of some guys) and do not bother them. I figure that they just want to be left alone. How is that not good wisdom, especially if you, like me, are not an attractive man (short, bad skin, out of shape etc) and know, honestly, that no woman wants to be bothered by the likes of you?

I for one am of the opinion that the best way to show one's respect for women is to leave them alone. That is the philosophy I have followed my whole life and I have never angered any women or made any woman uncomfortable in my entire life as a result. I would say that that qualifies me as a "good man".


EDIT: I do not mean "never, under any circumstances" talk to women, but what I mean is in the social, flirty way. If the cashier at the bank is a female than of course I will talk to her or a female co-worker. However, when it comes to females, it is best to leave it at business and nothing more.
With all due respect, you have some kind of mental issue. It's not normal for a MAN to isolate himself from women to such a high degree.
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Old 02-22-2010, 05:26 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Since you have decided that no woman could possibly be interested in you, why are you complaining about bring 28 and never having had a relationship?
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Old 02-22-2010, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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Since you have decided that no woman could possibly be interested in you, why are you complaining about bring 28 and never having had a relationship?
Because, he has the beginning stages of capal tunnel. That's why CES!!
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Old 02-22-2010, 06:12 PM
 
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Since you have decided that no woman could possibly be interested in you, why are you complaining about bring 28 and never having had a relationship?
I NEVER asked to be so short and ugly that no woman would want me. Nothing I can do about it, just the way things turned out. If only that worthless piece of human filth decided to have an abortion, it would have made things allot easier for me.
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Old 02-22-2010, 06:17 PM
 
Location: CasaMo
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Yes, she came up to me, talking to me, and I told her to go to hell, called her fat (which she wasn't, but women hate to hear that), and I think she went to the ladie's room to cry...and I am still find it funny.
You're lucky she didn't smack you upside the head in front of everyone there.
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Old 02-22-2010, 06:33 PM
 
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You're lucky she didn't smack you upside the head in front of everyone there.

So it's okay for a woman to just annoy a stranger who did nothing to her? What, should I have just taken that abuse?

give me a break.
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