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We were together for almost a year and everything was so intense.We loved each other very much.One day out of nowhere, he decided that he needs a little break of all that, but I know it meant it's the end so I recommended we finish it and stay friends.We tried to stay friends, but it was really difficult, cause I still loved him and was finding ways to ask him what happened, why he stopped loving me, have I done something wrong, is he having someone else and all those questions coming on my mind.
After several months, I met a guy.It wasn't anything serious, but it was a good relationship.When my ex heard about me being happy again, he tried to make a contact again asking me out, texting me and etc.He was really really sweet.I said to myself that I still love him, but nothing can really happen again.
Now, he got cold a bit, especially he is like that when he is working all day, but when he is off work he is still texting or calling me.1 week ago we went out to a drink, being friendly and we started laughing how silly we were when we were saying 'forever' on which he asked :if we gonna marry one day.It was really weird to hear it, but I thought he is just lonely and he wants making plans about the future.But still he continued mentioning the marriage thing, although he said he likes our friendship but he doesn't want anything else but friendship.(I knew it already cause he was the one who broke up with me).
But, mentioning about having kids and getting married with me, what does that mean?
It means that he doesn't want to be with you, but doesn't like seeing you with somebody else. It means that he really doesn't want to get together again, but will tell you things you want to hear, just to keep you on the back burner.
It means that he doesn't want to be with you, but doesn't like seeing you with somebody else. It means that he really doesn't want to get together again, but will tell you things you want to hear, just to keep you on the back burner.
What everyone else is telling you is very true. He just appears to be jealous that you're moving on with your life. You would think if he really cared about you that he'd be happy for you but I think he must be thinking only about himself and the fact that his ego has been injured because you recognize he's not the only guy in the whole world. Time to move on.
I fell for it cause he said he is sorry for what he did in the past, asking if we can stay pals and being curious about my life (and even friends) :/
Maybe, I just don't want to admit he is an *******.And, although I feel like I am hating him sometime, I am getting excited about the idea of a marriage, in same time knowing he will be the Runaway Bride, cause he is too weak to handle confrontations.)
I fell for it cause he said he is sorry for what he did in the past, asking if we can stay pals and being curious about my life (and even friends) :/
Maybe, I just don't want to admit he is an *******.And, although I feel like I am hating him sometime, I am getting excited about the idea of a marriage, in same time knowing he will be the Runaway Bride, cause he is too weak to handle confrontations.)
I can understand how romantic feelings tend to last a long time but from what you've told us I get the impression that he's not being truly honest about the feelings that he's having and that you could probably do alot better. You sound like a sincere person and my feeling is that you deserve much better than you'll ever get from this guy. I also feel that you know deep down inside that you really can't trust him or his motivations.
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