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I don't know where my future lies with Taco Man because everything is so new. I am seeing where it goes in the summer since both of us will have more time then. Anyway I fear for the future and I am so terrified that if I don't marry him I won't marry anyone. The sad thing is this is likely true because there aren't a lot of decent men available at my age.
I know, it's stupid to worry but I am scared of this and it has been bothering me often. I am a worrying person anyway no matter who I date and obviously can't mention this to him because then it might scare him.
I don't know where my future lies with Taco Man because everything is so new. I am seeing where it goes in the summer since both of us will have more time then. Anyway I fear for the future and I am so terrified that if I don't marry him I won't marry anyone. The sad thing is this is likely true because there aren't a lot of decent men available at my age.
I know, it's stupid to worry but I am scared of this and it has been bothering me often. I am a worrying person anyway no matter who I date and obviously can't mention this to him because then it might scare him.
Don't be silly. I know a lot of women who got married in their 40s for the first time. I don't mean to sound like a biotch, just want to give you some positive encouragement here.
My ex's sister married a dude looks like George Clooney when she was exactly 40 years old. She was short, only 5 feet, average to below average looking. (My ex is hot though ) She has a master degree just like you. She has never been married, this is her first marriage.
She even got pregnant at age of 42 (then she got a miscarriage) This is her husband's second marriage, he was a childless divorced man at the time he married her. I heard from my ex that he makes at least 300K/year. He's handsome too. Honestly, I have no ideas what he sees in her besides her great personality I guess. (Like I said, I don't want to sound like a biotch, I am only telling the truth here. My ex sister has no boobs, no ass, no curves. She is short, tiny, skinny, occasionally bitchy, but I love her personality. She is a decent person.) She considers herself as way above average intellectually because she has a master degree.
Hang in there. if the taco man does not work out, there will be another person waiting for you in the future.
I don't know where my future lies with Taco Man because everything is so new. I am seeing where it goes in the summer since both of us will have more time then. Anyway I fear for the future and I am so terrified that if I don't marry him I won't marry anyone. The sad thing is this is likely true because there aren't a lot of decent men available at my age.
I know, it's stupid to worry but I am scared of this and it has been bothering me often. I am a worrying person anyway no matter who I date and obviously can't mention this to him because then it might scare him.
Why the obsession with Taco Man? A few months ago you declared you'd be married by Christmas, yet it seems he doesn't give you the time of day. You're full of excuses about time, his shyness (disinterest?) this mama's boy, living at home, selling tacos out of his garage. Half the time I wonder if you're just a really good storytelling troll, writing a novel, or if this is who you are and maybe you need medication. I don't mean to offend but you really don't come across well at all. Since like attracts like, I really wonder about you, if he is the best you can hope to attract.
I don't necessarily feel that it's all over if a certain person doesn't marry me, but I do sometimes worry that I will never get married. It'd hard sometimes when you are getting older and still want kids.
Yeah, good instinct. Don't mention it to him. worried about marriage? You think no one will if he doesn't? Highly unlikely. You will have many opportunities as I am confident I will at probably twice your age. Relax.
From drinks at the American Legion with him and his mother to marriage...does she know that you planning to take her little 50 yo baby from her? Will never happen, you are living in a fantasy world.
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) She has a master degree just like you. She has never been married, this is her first marriage.
