So there's this guy at the gym. . . (family, attraction, physically)
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LOL. Yeah, it's almost no fun giving you **** anymore because you're way too nice. I should start perving on Max's Mama and see how well that goes over.
Good luck! Max's Mama is nicer than me! However, if you want me to smack you around......just say so.
LOL....No way Urban, you're too good of a guy to hit over the head with a dumbell. No some of the others on here.........POW..right in the medulla oblongata!
The following is going to read out like a note passed by a thirteen year old girl. You were forewarned.
I couldn't get up the guts to directly make eye contact with him (obviously a smile didn't happen either). I don't know what it is about him, but I went on lockdown mode anytime I was near him (such as when I walked in and laid my stuff down on the table he was sitting beside) and didn't directly acknowledge him at all. Snap out of it, mango!! I hate that I'm doing this. I have to stop it.
However, he did have an opportunity to directly acknowledge/smile/talk to me. It was just me, him, and the guy that works there in the gym. He's friends with that guy. I ask the guy who works there if he will put the weights on the squat machine for me (since I can't lift them up onto the machine - I'm not playing weak) and as he is doing so, I ask him why the gym is so empty tonight. I could tell that Mr. X was aware of me, but instead he said something under his breath the guy who works there and apparently it was humorous since they both chuckled. I asked "what?" and the guy who works there said "nothing." The end.
Why oh why oh why oh why oh why am I bringing this onto myself!!!? Him not acknowledging me and acting as if I'm a mute chunk of broccoli makes me feel as if he has zero interest whatsoever, although I have no right to say that since I'm not acknowledging him either thanks to my ridiculous fear of him rejecting him.
This reads like a very cheap soap opera. Good karma for everyone that is still sticking in this thread.
I don't want to be like this toward him, but it's almost as if it's a conditioned response. Please help me. I don't feel like giving up! I'm practically programmed to do my thing until a guy goes out of his way to make a move (not necessarily flirting, but just interaction in general) on me and then I will take the reins. It's as if I can't even take the first step toward a guy I'm instantly attracted to - even something as simple as eye contact and a smile! He probably thinks I'm a stuck-up beyotch.
People have told you this repeatedly. He's aware of you but not interested. You are not listening. If he's "got it going on" he's got a ton of options, and sadly you have done nothing to stand out in the crowd. Lesson learned.
I could tell that Mr. X was aware of me, but instead he said something under his breath the guy who works there and apparently it was humorous since they both chuckled. I asked "what?" and the guy who works there said "nothing." The end.
You seriously still interested in this guy?
Not only is that really rude, but it's also immature. He sounds like a douche and a half.
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Snap out of it, mango!! I hate that I'm doing this. I have to stop it. 
