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Have transgendered friends, namely men on their way to um being less manly even though they still are sexually attracted women.... eventually they will be men who changed to women who are attracted to women.... Mind boggling to say the least. Have had some sexual advances, but there's no way I could ever go for that. Does absolutely nothing for me.
I know I'm playing the devils advocate here so bear with. You are segregating her/him into a category other than "Man" just by saying you wouldn't date a her/him Transgender.
I treat him as a person. I treat everyone that I come into contact with on an individual basis based on who they are. I love him. I'm close to him. I always have been. Sexuality isn't something that you can control. A gay man cannot will himself straight to appease people anymore than I could be sexually attracted to someone who was born with out a penis. I need a penis. Not everyone's sexual orientation is as black and white. Some people's sexuality is more fluid. Some people are open to falling in love with men or women or transgenders or transexuals or etc. I am not. This has nothing to do with segregation, bigotry, etc - it is about sexual orientation. My friend is getting married to a woman. She thought she was straight but fell in love with him and realized that she is probably bi or a lesbian. I'm not like that.
I love my friend but I am only sexually attracted to him. Just as I'm not sexually attracted to gay men, women, metrosexuals, men with no sense of humor, a-holes, etc. This isn't bigotry, segregation, etc. You are grasping at straws here.
Nearly every guy would date a transexual if she looked good enough. I've seen some in LA and NYC that are absolutely gorgeous and I'm 100% certain most guys would date them (or at least have sex with them) if they knew that no one would ever find out.
Been there done that! Weirdest story ever. I consider myself straight, with the occasional lesbian moment here and there. Most of those were back in college, lol. Anyway, one night out of the blue I am hit on by a girl, which never happens anymore. I started to say no but she was really hot! And as we talked she seemed like a cool person too. Well, yahta yahta yahta...she was a dude. Yes, she did warn me before we did the deed. I thought two things: 1) ok, this proves I am really, mostly straight. I mean, the one time in recent years that I find myself attracted to a woman, and turns out she's a guy. 2) I'm really curious. Could this be the best of both worlds??? So we dated for a while. She hadn't had her bottom surgery yet (so still male), but she did have implants on top, and was passable as a female on the street. In bed it wasn't what I expected, she wanted me to play the male role. I couldn't quite figure that out. Shouldn't she be going after guys if that's what she wanted? So you're born a guy...but inside, you're a lesbian? (How many guys feel that way?) So...we lasted a few weeks, then I broke up with her for reasons unrelated to the whole gender thing. She never believed me, thought it was because I couldn't deal with being with a trans. She thought I just wanted to "try her out". That made me sad. She really was a beautiful person. And that's my wacky story.
I grew up thinking transexuals where gay, but then again homosexuals do not change their sexual organs making them a completely different agenda to transexuals.
I heard transexuals are either a girl or a boy trapped in the wrong body, so technically that does not make them gay, while gay people accept who they are, but have one thing in common with transexuals, they both are attracted to same sex but have a different gender, either feminine or masculine to be honest its hard to elaborate in these terms because both possess similar agendas.
i know this question is odd but honest would you date a transexual? As a straight man i wouldn't i would rather date a biological born female than a transgender, but i do understand that transexuals are straight not gay, gay date gays, lesbians date lesbians so the big question is would you date or do you find a transexuals attractive as you may find the opposite sex attracted to you?. i just need your opinions hehe
no...but this stems from the question: Wouldn't it be simpler just to act like the opposite sex, or be a homosexual? Surely, there is nothing wrong with men liking pink and shopping for shoes, or women enjoying playing football, construction work, and crude jokes. I don't understand the urge to become a member of the opposite sex, and so am concerned that it might not be a good thing...and will remain concerned until I can better understand how it might be a positive thing. Such people should be treated with respect though, as should everyone who is innocent of wrongdoing towards others.
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