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Snoopy behavior is a deal-breaker for me,because I'm funny about my privacy.
The way I see it,lack of respect for my privacy is the same as lack of respect for me and I can't tolerate that.
I learned not to trust a MF as soon as my ages rolled into the double digits. Everyone who is afraid of a snoop has something to hide. Thats what I know!
If you were so 100% with your other half you can share and tell ANYTHING.
I think its insane to push our body parts into each other but you can't know what the other is doing or thinking? What part of that does not seem lowly, trashy, and cheap?
So you believe in ZERO privacy?
Do you leave the bathroom door open or unlocked when you have to do your business?
Do you just waltz right in without a knock when he's doing his?
Do you listen in on each other's phone calls and rummage through each other's wallets and trash?
Do you leave the bathroom door open or unlocked when you have to do your business?
Do you just waltz right in without a knock when he's doing his?
Do you listen in on each other's phone calls and rummage through each other's wallets and trash?
I don't know about you, but that's crazy.
Oh my... only an extreme psycho would do that.
I think there was a case of an emotional abuser and the woman had to even ask for permission to use the bathroom (he would also check on the bathroom trash)...
Do you leave the bathroom door open or unlocked when you have to do your business?
Do you just waltz right in without a knock when he's doing his?
Do you listen in on each other's phone calls and rummage through each other's wallets and trash?
I don't know about you, but that's crazy.
This part doesn't bother me.
As far as listening in on the phone calls, it's not that easy to tune the other person out when they're in the same room as you, or are talking loud enough for you to hear them from another room. But I wonder about those who talk on their cell phones, and get that strange look on their face and say to you, "Hey, this is a private conversation..." Uh, no, it's not. By answering the phone and talking in public (like on the bus) you've made it VERY public. Sure, we might only hear one side of it, but still.
My husband and I trust each other completely. We have each other's email passwords, share computers, will read text messages to each other or check voicemails if the receiver is in the shower or something.
Why not? Neither of us have anything to hide, and it's just easier this way. I don't just go into his email just because to see what he's been doing during the day, but sometimes he'll call me from the road and ask me to locate a phone number in an email someone sent him or something.
I can't imagine having phone calls that I wasn't comfortable with him hearing, or sending emails that I didn't want him to see. (Except when I planned a surprise vacation for him--but then I just told him to stay out of xyz folder for a couple weeks)
My husband and I trust each other completely. We have each other's email passwords, share computers, will read text messages to each other or check voicemails if the receiver is in the shower or something.
Why not? Neither of us have anything to hide, and it's just easier this way. I don't just go into his email just because to see what he's been doing during the day, but sometimes he'll call me from the road and ask me to locate a phone number in an email someone sent him or something.
I can't imagine having phone calls that I wasn't comfortable with him hearing, or sending emails that I didn't want him to see. (Except when I planned a surprise vacation for him--but then I just told him to stay out of xyz folder for a couple weeks)
Those activities are not snooping. Your husband gave you his passwords and you check voice mails and texts to see if it's something important. I do the same thing. He gets a text while he's mowing the lawn, I look who it is and tell him if I know it's important. You aren't looking for incriminating evidence or trying to spy on your husband. That's what snooping is. Snooping is going into places uninvited.
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