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Old 08-04-2012, 08:59 AM
 
Location: The Triad
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When in my 40's, my 80something noted:
"you're getting crotchety in your old age"
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:38 AM
 
Location: In a chartreuse microbus
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Also, can women be curmudgeons? Or would that be a curmudgeoness? Do you have a favorite curmudgeon, or maybe a few favorite curmudgeonly sayings?

And most of all.... what is it about reaching retirement age that brings this out in us?
Present and accounted for!


I do try to pepper any cranky comments with humor to soften the blow. I'm at a point where I refuse to put up with stupidity and rudeness. And now, I have the time and backbone to rectify it.
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Old 08-04-2012, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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I do try to pepper any cranky comments with humor to soften the blow.
Humor seems to be the fine line difference between being "curmudgeonly" and being "bitchy." Also, curmudgeonly comments seem to be more about undermining stupidity in general, whereas bitchy remarks seem more personal--they seem to be about undermining a person you dislike or are jealous of.

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At this age, I now say: I have no personal, professional or political aspirations and am finely free to be a curmudgeon.
LOL, yup that's gotta be why curmudgeonliness is the realm of the retiree. No job means no worrying about "what would my boss think..."
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Old 08-04-2012, 10:13 AM
 
Location: SW MO
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All thoughts are well stated folks. You have expressed it better than I could have. At this age, I now say: I have no personal, professional or political aspirations and am finely free to be a curmudgeon.
But it does take time and experrience. If you do not have a natural inclination toward curmudgeoness or a true proclivity it may also take training.

Be warned! It can also get you banned.
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Old 08-04-2012, 02:32 PM
 
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But it does take time and experrience. If you do not have a natural inclination toward curmudgeoness or a true proclivity it may also take training.

Be warned! It can also get you banned.
YOU should offer classes and write a book. And hey, I'd be PROUD to be banned from some of the businesses around here. You are correct that to perfect one's state of curmudgeoness, it takes years of fine tuneing one's natural inclination.
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Old 08-04-2012, 03:01 PM
 
Location: NC
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These are my words to describe a curmudgeon

candid
irrepressible
cynical
loveable
direct
a happy pessimist
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Old 08-04-2012, 03:24 PM
 
Location: SW MO
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These are my words to describe a curmudgeon

candid
irrepressible
cynical
loveable
direct
a happy pessimist
Have we met?
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Old 08-04-2012, 03:26 PM
 
Location: SW MO
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YOU should offer classes and write a book. And hey, I'd be PROUD to be banned from some of the businesses around here. You are correct that to perfect one's state of curmudgeoness, it takes years of fine tuneing one's natural inclination.
I consider it a higher calling!
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Old 08-04-2012, 04:43 PM
 
Location: Texas
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These are my words to describe a curmudgeon

candid
irrepressible
cynical
loveable
direct
a happy pessimist

I think you are talking to me, are you talking to me?
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Old 08-04-2012, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Near a river
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These are my words to describe a curmudgeon

candid
irrepressible
cynical
loveable
direct
a happy pessimist
I prefer just plain cynical. Think Humphrey Bogart, my kind of guy.
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