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Old 06-13-2022, 01:47 PM
 
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It sounds like you found the perfect place and good for you. The thing about here, is I didn’t do enough due diligence on the area first and there was no way to know how my spouse would feel about the rain. He’s really miserable and all winter long, he looks out the window at the rain and sighs.

Your situation sounds perfect, but everyone doesn’t get perfect on the first or tenth try. Bucolic or pastoral, yes, I get it. Unfortunately, you can’t live on views, other things like neighbors or drive distance come into play. I agree with you about tract housing, sometimes the houses are so close together, they may as well share a roof. It’s a shame to see nice land being built on. They’re building another warehouse few miles down the road, a payday loan and more gas stations will probably follow and what was pretty farmland will go downhill fast.

I have a few ideas about moving my chickens, even bought some wire dog cages to put them in. I recently found out they’ll need a health certificate for the new state. The horses would be hauled by websites where you put in information on your current and future state and number of horses, then get bids from haulers. I even thought about going to the future state to house hunt, bring the dogs and board them there, so we wouldn’t have to deal with moving them later on.

Yes, definitely serious about the horses, the youngest is twenty, the oldest is thirty five. I’d be too worried about who and where they’d end up to ever think of selling them. Anyway, I’m happy to PM you and bounce other ideas off you and also hear what you think. Advise is much appreciated. If I could find someone to split the driving, it would be great. Spouse and I will be taking separate vehicles, he’ll drive the truck, I’ll probably rent a van or RV to bring the birds.
My knowing this land was “it” was predicated upon a few things:

1. I was raised on the dairy farm my brother now owns.

2. I have been so very fortunate to travel to many states in my lifetime and have been gifted with the ability to mentally place myself somewhere and ask me if I could envision living there for a long time.

2.1. I have lived in several places (including SoCal’s Low Desert area, short term out of necessity.

3. This was the last piece of land we looked at before we had to fly back home. The realtor couldn’t find the road, lol. Soon as I laid eyes on the place, I told the realtor I didn’t have to walk it but we did anyway. We were signing papers for the bare property in a Denny’s, minutes from the airport with not much time to spare, lollol.

I knew what I wanted and what it should feel like to my senses. To this day, every time I have to drive to town, coming home still “feels like the first time” as the old Foreigner song goes

4. You are a terrific horse mom to have got your horse to 35. He would probably be better served with you taking a full week and hauling him and his buddy cross-country yourself.

I lost my coming 27 yr old TWH to major colic in February, which left my 28 yr old TWH the Last Man Standing. Thru a stroke of Fate, I found a long 26 yr old retired show jumper, Dutch Warmblood, but he was 2,100 miles away in SoCal. The lady paid to have him shipped here for retirement via KC Transport (google them).

Except for some issues from a long show jumping career, he is a strong healthy horse. He arrived here March 31st and boy was I glad for my 60+ years with horses. He still ended up losing ~75#, his ulcers flared big time and he went completely off his feed.

He is doing great now, but my point is that he rode three days (with one overnight off the van) on an air ride van and he still ended up in a bad way. Had I not known what to do and had I not had the cushion of the sports medicine vet and the vet/chiropractor to help me —- well I doubt I would have lost him but his recovery time would have been a lot longer and more miserable than it was.

Moving cross-country is a lot to ask of a 26 yr old much less a grand fella of 35. If you could do the driving and take a full week, or longer if he needed it, and bring his buddy with him, I feel like he would make the trip much better

PM me and I’ll tell you where I’m at, vets, farrier’s, hospitals, stores, doctors, etc.. I think you might be better off, in terms of purchase, looking at foreclosures if you folks can do some work yourselves.
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Old 07-19-2022, 11:32 AM
 
Location: West Virginia
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We traveled all over the US during our working years- and lived from coast to coast. If we had been retired, we would have stayed in Maine; we fell in love with the state and the people from day one. Alas, I was still needing some employment, and Maine didn't do it for us given the job opportunities in my field. We didn't have the assets to be able to stay there, and at the time we wouldn't have been able to retire there. It took moving to another state to find a job that paid well enough for us to build a 'nest egg'. We considered moving back when it was time to retire, but found enough of the good aspects of Maine here in Michigan to keep us here. Our traveling days are over- and we're happy and comfortable here.

(Which is an interesting thing to say, given that outside it is -8F wind chill right now!)

We have sort of the same experience. I cut ally bought land in northern Maine like 15 years ago. I lived in Europe at the time and back then Maine would have been convenient for me. A few years ago I resettled back in the USA. I ended up being a bit far from Maine. I absolutely adore Maine, with the ocean, hills and lakes.

So I was looking around on Google maps and ended up finding my new place in the UP. Michigan can be just as nice as Maine. It doesn’t have the big hills like Baxter State Park. However Maine doesn’t have 3 fresh water seas.
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Old 07-19-2022, 04:20 PM
 
Location: Tioga County
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...Since starting this thread...there has been a lot of movement by folks..esp out of urban areas. Luckily, our part of upstate NY is not on the radar for many of the "pilgrims" looking for a weekend/fulltime home. A newbie to our area in the past few months still needs to adjust their mindset a bit. When I offered to pull his suv out of a ditch with my tractor...his first response was, "how much is this going to cost me?" After telling him, "no cost, you are a neighbor"..I got "the look". Just before the 4th, he was posting his 7-8 acres. ..with perhaps..every posted sign he could buy within a 20 mile radius. (With a bit of sarcasm), I stopped and mentioned he missed a twig to put up a sign on about 300' back. He actually took it seriously and said he would correct that...really?
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Old 07-20-2022, 07:30 AM
 
Location: Wooster, Ohio
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...Since starting this thread...there has been a lot of movement by folks..esp out of urban areas. Luckily, our part of upstate NY is not on the radar for many of the "pilgrims" looking for a weekend/fulltime home. A newbie to our area in the past few months still needs to adjust their mindset a bit. When I offered to pull his suv out of a ditch with my tractor...his first response was, "how much is this going to cost me?" After telling him, "no cost, you are a neighbor"..I got "the look". Just before the 4th, he was posting his 7-8 acres. ..with perhaps..every posted sign he could buy within a 20 mile radius. (With a bit of sarcasm), I stopped and mentioned he missed a twig to put up a sign on about 300' back. He actually took it seriously and said he would correct that...really?

It will be interesting to see if he is able to fit in with the neighbors, or ends up moving.
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Old 07-27-2022, 03:28 PM
 
Location: In the Redwoods
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Perhaps it was a polite way to respond to overly nosy neighbor without saying it like it is that they're tired of Lyme-infested ticks and judgemental yokels. And of NY communist government.
Which one is it - communist or socialist (as someone else claimed)? Isn't there a difference, or are those just buzzwords for something else these days?

More likely, neither of you actually know what those terms mean.
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