Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Work and Employment
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 12-25-2017, 11:47 PM
 
Location: 53179
14,416 posts, read 22,486,250 times
Reputation: 14479

Advertisements

It depends what kind of sex offense we are talking about.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 12-25-2017, 11:51 PM
 
Location: 53179
14,416 posts, read 22,486,250 times
Reputation: 14479
When I was 16 I was dating a 21 year old. In Sweden that is legal. Age of consent is 15. In The USA he would be a sex offender.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-26-2017, 06:24 AM
 
Location: Raleigh
8,166 posts, read 8,526,811 times
Reputation: 10147
Quote:
Originally Posted by glass_of_merlot View Post
When I was 16 I was dating a 21 year old. In Sweden that is legal. Age of consent is 15. In The USA he would be a sex offender.
It varies from state to state, but generally with that age difference there could be prosecution. Under 18 the parents apparently can claim something along the lines of kidnapping.
One thing to keep in mind over here is any arrest is on the internet forever on the mugshot sites. Only convictions get to the list.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-26-2017, 06:25 AM
 
Location: LEAVING CD
22,974 posts, read 27,011,790 times
Reputation: 15645
Quote:
Originally Posted by Brian_M View Post
Curious how you feel about the current case where the 14y/o girl is in court over child porn (sexting pictures of herself to others) ~ if convicted, she will be labeled a sex offender.

I'm serious, not a rhetorical question. There's a HUGE variance in "sex offenses", from peeing in 'public' on up.
Well, if those that are so vocal about it were to remain consistent it'd be "she's scum of the earth and should be kept in jail for life".

People for some reason must have a boogey man (or woman) to fear and rail against, maybe to make what they do that's wrong or their own failings look okay in their minds? "Well, I may be a <insert transgression here> at least I'm not one of those" rattles around in their skulls on a daily basis...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-26-2017, 06:27 AM
 
Location: Raleigh
8,166 posts, read 8,526,811 times
Reputation: 10147
Quote:
Originally Posted by glass_of_merlot View Post
It depends what kind of sex offense we are talking about.
Not with the list. You are on or not.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-26-2017, 06:37 AM
 
Location: LEAVING CD
22,974 posts, read 27,011,790 times
Reputation: 15645
Quote:
Originally Posted by Crashj007 View Post
Not with the list. You are on or not.
And to add to that what about those that while on the list have had no legal issues for over 20++ years? Is everyone defined by what they did decades ago, is that where we're now at as a society?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-26-2017, 08:22 AM
 
Location: Raleigh
8,166 posts, read 8,526,811 times
Reputation: 10147
Quote:
Originally Posted by jimj View Post
And to add to that what about those that while on the list have had no legal issues for over 20++ years? Is everyone defined by what they did decades ago, is that where we're now at as a society?
Based on the recent news, yes, a grope can come back and haunt a man 40 years later.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-26-2017, 08:32 AM
 
30,166 posts, read 11,795,579 times
Reputation: 18687
Quote:
Originally Posted by MLSFan View Post
the church hires them all the time, but call them priests leading youth bible camps
Actually not totally true. The church works hard to make sure the priests are never charged or convicted of anything so technically they are not sex offenders but should be.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-26-2017, 10:30 AM
 
Location: LEAVING CD
22,974 posts, read 27,011,790 times
Reputation: 15645
Quote:
Originally Posted by Crashj007 View Post
Based on the recent news, yes, a grope can come back and haunt a man 40 years later.
In the context of the OP, if someone has broken a law AND paid the penalty for said actions at some point no matter who they are or what they did should be a non issue.

Most people are not the same person they were 20 years ago (note I said "most").
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-26-2017, 10:55 AM
 
2,819 posts, read 2,585,020 times
Reputation: 3554
It depends on the circumstances but most likely not. However if it was a high school relationship situation then that would be less concerning than exploiting a 5 year old. As long as there were other qualified candidates joining I’d choose one who wasn’t convicted.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Work and Employment

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top