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Old 12-11-2019, 06:29 AM
 
Location: So Ca
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I say, “This is she.”
So do I. (Mom trained us well.)
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Old 12-11-2019, 06:38 AM
 
Location: Mid-Atlantic
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Or you say, "This is Mary."
or "speaking."
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Old 12-11-2019, 05:05 PM
 
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or "speaking."
Except that it sounds so abrupt, don't you think?
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Old 12-14-2019, 05:24 AM
 
Location: So Ca
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When people who are educated and know it's not correct use that verbiage, we're already there.
I happen to agree with the headhunter's comment, below:

"Some might consider grammar an annoying technicality, a detail of speech and writing not worth the time fussing over.

"That's bunk," writes Nick Corcidolos, a headhunter in Silicon Valley since 1979.

"The way you use language reveals who you are, how you think, and how you work .... You can pretend otherwise, but you can also walk around buck-naked believing you're invisible because you've got your eyes closed," he writes.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/e...-a6952346.html
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Old 12-14-2019, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Mid-Atlantic
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Except that it sounds so abrupt, don't you think?
Not if you use the right tone of voice. It's either that or This is he/she. I called to make an appointment and the secy responded with Who is this? Not exactly proper business protocol.
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Old 12-14-2019, 03:08 PM
 
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I called to make an appointment and the secy responded with Who is this? Not exactly proper business protocol.
It's not even proper protocol in regard to personal calls. Many years ago (well before the era of junk phone calls), I knew a guy who still lived with his family, and whenever I phoned him, if his sister answered the phone, her "greeting" was always an aggresive shouting of the following words...
Hello, who's this?

After experiencing her "greeting" on several occasions, I informed him that if he couldn't educate his sister regarding proper phone etiquette, I wouldn't be calling him again. Unfortunately, his sister proved to be ineducable.
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Old 12-17-2019, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Southwest Washington State
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I happen to agree with the headhunter's comment, below:

"Some might consider grammar an annoying technicality, a detail of speech and writing not worth the time fussing over.

"That's bunk," writes Nick Corcidolos, a headhunter in Silicon Valley since 1979.

"The way you use language reveals who you are, how you think, and how you work .... You can pretend otherwise, but you can also walk around buck-naked believing you're invisible because you've got your eyes closed," he writes.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/e...-a6952346.html
Well, I agree with this. And, I’ll go further and state that writing helps clarify thoughts.
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Old 12-18-2019, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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Well, I agree with this. And, I’ll go further and state that writing helps clarify thoughts.
Yes. My favorite writing quote is "I write to find out what I know."
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Old 12-18-2019, 10:59 AM
 
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The same folks who say that will say "Me and her went to the store."
To which one responds, "What did youse buy?"
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Old 12-18-2019, 12:15 PM
 
Location: Southwest Washington State
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Yes. My favorite writing quote is "I write to find out what I know."
“. . . and don’t know!”
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