How is the dating scene in Atlanta for a straight NY male? (Nashville: wealthy, discount)

[green_mariner]

Originally Posted by LovinDecatur

Well, as a woman who also has plenty of experience in this arena, I'll weigh in with my two cents. Any woman with a double digit IQ can smell 'swag' like it's a pile of dog**** and will usually use a get-together with the girlfriends as an opportunity to laugh at them and call them out for the losers that they are. Any woman that wants to squander her emotional support on that kind of man is an idiot.
Like the esteemed author Rita Mae Brown once said (to paraphrase), any woman than turns her financial independence over to another human being keeps counsel with fools.

I'm not saying that a woman who chases swag is worth it. I'm saying there is a trend where there are women chasing swag, and it's making it hard for the men who don't have it.

[ekman243]

I thought swag just means stylist confidence, who wouldn't want that verses being a nerd with no confidence. Most attractive women have swag why can't men . There is nothing more sexier than a woman with a professional degree walking into the office with So Kate Red Sole or Jimmy Choo shoes with a St John suit, now that is swag.

[fieldm]

Originally Posted by ekman243

I thought swag just means stylist confidence, who wouldn't want that verses being a nerd with no confidence. Most attractive women have swag why can't men . There is nothing more sexier than a woman with a professional degree walking into the office with So Kate Red Sole or Jimmy Choo shoes with a St John suit, now that is swag.

Depends on who is paying for it

[Iconographer]

Originally Posted by ekman243

I thought swag just means stylist confidence, who wouldn't want that verses being a nerd with no confidence. Most attractive women have swag why can't men . There is nothing more sexier than a woman with a professional degree walking into the office with So Kate Red Sole or Jimmy Choo shoes with a St John suit, now that is swag.

And I would assert that any poor ******* that feels the need to resort to 'swag' is, in fact, a nerd with no confidence.
St. John suits. Yeah, my mother loved those things. I think that she was buried in one 10 years ago.

[ekman243]

Originally Posted by LovinDecatur

And I would assert that any poor ******* that feels the need to resort to 'swag' is, in fact, a nerd with no confidence.
St. John suits. Yeah, my mother loved those things. I think that she was buried in one 10 years ago.

You must be old ,overweight or envious. You took the meaning of swag as a negative term. There is nothing wrong with being confident and sure of yourself, if not get there.

[arjay57]

Originally Posted by ekman243

I thought swag just means stylist confidence, who wouldn't want that verses being a nerd with no confidence. Most attractive women have swag why can't men . There is nothing more sexier than a woman with a professional degree walking into the office with So Kate Red Sole or Jimmy Choo shoes with a St John suit, now that is swag.

I thought "swag" meant stuff that was stolen, or the junk they pass out at conventions.

"Swagger" is different. That's the attitude (or the walk) of somebody who's extremely confident or arrogant.

At least that's the way I always understood it.

[0nyxStation]

Originally Posted by green_mariner

I'm not saying that a woman who chases swag is worth it. I'm saying there is a trend where there are women chasing swag, and it's making it hard for the men who don't have it.

LOL You and LD are speaking on two different frequencies, but I see what the 2 of you are saying though.

[0nyxStation]

Originally Posted by ekman243

You must be old ,overweight or envious. You took the meaning of swag as a negative term. There is nothing wrong with being confident and sure of yourself, if not get there.

Again 2 different frequencies

[0nyxStation]

Originally Posted by Augatl

That's not the BW fault though.

Never said it was anyones fault maam. Just saying Black guys dont like it. There isnt much they can do about it either. They just have deal and navigate. Again make your money and spend it with the establishment. Its all good.

[AnsleyPark]

Originally Posted by ekman243

I thought swag just means stylist confidence, who wouldn't want that verses being a nerd with no confidence. Most attractive women have swag why can't men . There is nothing more sexier than a woman with a professional degree walking into the office with So Kate Red Sole or Jimmy Choo shoes with a St John suit, now that is swag.

There is nothing sexier than a woman with confidence who doesn't feel the need to wear such expensive clothing. I'll take a pair of jeans and sweatshirt any day!