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Originally Posted by Rapunzll
She used to use the Clever Cat litter box all the time. My sister thinks she is getting even for me getting a second cat. Who knows, no way to get into her head. I brought one litter box in the house to see if she will go to it. I will not leave it there though permanently. I don't have any good spots in the house to put a litter box unfortunately.
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That's a good plan. Sometimes it's all about experimentation in order to get inside a cat's head to comprehend what he/she is trying to tell us.
It's ok to have the box(s) in odd places for now - friends and family do understand that when there's a litterbox (or multiple boxes) in places throughout our homes that just don't fit into the décor it's because of an experimental phase. I have a red and white plastic table cloth taped to a bookcase next to my fireplace at the moment (a deterrent), and I don't take it off when friends come over. At one point I had a litterbox in my kitchen.
I know it's hard to hold onto patience and keep frustration at bay, but never do cats do anything without a reason behind it. It's just a challenge to find out the reason.
Going back in time here .... your 3-year-old used to use the box just fine and covered her poo, but then stopped covering her poo in the box, and is now leaving it exposed outside the box? Is that somewhat the order of events? In this timeline, when did the second cat come into your home?
What is this second cat like? Male? Female? Age? Spayed/neutered? Outgoing? Shy? Skittish? Never phased by anything?
About the 3-year-old ... what is she like? Spayed? Outgoing? Shy? Skittish? Never phased by anything? How long have you had her?
Asking because here's my thought ...
Cats cover their liquid and solid deposits to hide their scent, to keep it a secret that they've been there. That's the premise anyway. Out in the wild, tigers for example are known to pee and poo in water to mask their scent.
Cats who want to create a beacon to say "I've been here and this is my turf" will leave their urine and feces uncovered. There are two different states of mind - the first is laid back and confident (the cat steps in and does his/her thing and steps out), and the second is less confident and feels a sense of being challenged (and many of these cats will also spray (a bit different than urination) to mark their territory). I'm thinking this is what might be going on with your 3-year-old, leaving a beacon. This is "fixable"!
Last question: how did you introduce the new kitty to your old kitty?