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Haven't you read the things men say about aging women? Majority of it are put downs or cracks about their physical appearance. So obviously women (the ones that give a crap) are going to fear that process. Women's entire worth to a man is tied to her looks; the less there is, the less they consider her anything. We're constantly reminded that a 22 year old woman is 'in her prime' and the rest of us are not, as well as the various ways that make the 22 year old more desirable then the rest of the lot who is older. Sounds great, huh?
When I was younger I never ever dated or had a relationship with a woman that wasn't at least seven years older than myself.
Not all but most women in the 18 to 30 year old age bracket seem to lack self esteem, have body issues with themselves despite how they look and generally do not have the mental maturity that a woman who's in their 40's and older possess.
The widest age difference that I had in a long term relationship was 14 years when I was 37 years old.
Also since children were never on my radar I searched out relationships with women that either did not have children and did not want them or had grown children that had left the house.
The older the woman is the better the chance is of this being the norm.
Older women are more beautiful, more mentally mature, more sexually gratifying, more intellectually stimulating on average than any young female adult.
Because those are the women I'm most attracted to.
Those are the ones you are attracted to now.
Your bracket will likely become more realistic as you age.
19yo women will become generally annoying or less interesting. You'll probably shift to 21 and older before too long (as a general guideline). I've known plenty of guys who got closer to 30 and wouldn't consider a woman unless she was at least 21-22, or around the age when women were typically out of college and working on careers, thinking about marriage and/or more serious relationships, etc.
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Well I would like to be, but when you are around mostly males and all they talk about is the "hot" chick here, there and everywhere it's a little wearing. Even my boss, he loves having younger women in the office and he is over 50.
Haven't you read the things men say about aging women? Majority of it are put downs or cracks about their physical appearance. So obviously women (the ones that give a crap) are going to fear that process. Women's entire worth to a man is tied to her looks; the less there is, the less they consider her anything. We're constantly reminded that a 22 year old woman is 'in her prime' and the rest of us are not, as well as the various ways that make the 22 year old more desirable then the rest of the lot who is older. Sounds great, huh?
But They don't have to measure up to what some men say, plus there's tons of older women who date and successfully I might add. To reference the porn thread you made , are women pressured to do certain things porn actresses do? Absolutely, but do they have to do them? Of course not. We all age, even the men who "make cracks or put downs about women's physical appearance".
Alot of men say they don't like fat women, does that mean fat women should change the size they are just to please them? Of course not. Actually alot of men prefer plus sized women, but that's a whole other thread
Haven't you read the things men say about aging women? Majority of it are put downs or cracks about their physical appearance. So obviously women (the ones that give a crap) are going to fear that process. Women's entire worth to a man is tied to her looks; the less there is, the less they consider her anything. We're constantly reminded that a 22 year old woman is 'in her prime' and the rest of us are not, as well as the various ways that make the 22 year old more desirable then the rest of the lot who is older. Sounds great, huh?
Exactly! You know what though? Let them be attracted to them, also let them handle the drama that goes with the age! I told my husband last night, "sure you and your buddies like looking at the "hot" young european women, but I can tell you this, the only thing they would see in you guys are your wallets. Behind your back, they would texting and messing around with the good looking guys in their own age group!."
Because those are the women I'm most attracted to.
Check back with us in 30 years, when you grow up.
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Well I would like to be, but when you are around mostly males and all they talk about is the "hot" chick here, there and everywhere it's a little wearing. Even my boss, he loves having younger women in the office and he is over 50.
You don't want to have anything to do with those kinds of immature men.
Your bracket will likely become more realistic as you age.
19yo women will become generally annoying or less interesting. You'll probably shift to 21 and older before too long (as a general guideline). I've known plenty of guys who got closer to 30 and wouldn't consider a woman unless she was at least 21-22, or around the age when women were typically out of college and working on careers, thinking about marriage and/or more serious relationships, etc.
Um.. we'll see. I don't see this changing though, as I said Before I don't think ill be able to pull the same women. Ill still be attracted to them, but most likely won't have a chance. Hugh Hefnar dates women in that age range but that's mostly because he's Hugh Hefnar and he can. Myself, like many men at the age(or when we get there) won't have that same luxury. I don't think dating women in a range I'm not generally attracted to because I can't get the ones I really want counts as evolving my preferences. That's settling
Um.. we'll see. I don't see this changing though, as I said Before I don't think ill be able to pull the same women. Ill still be attracted to them, but most likely won't have a chance. Hugh Hefnar dates women in that age range but that's mostly because he's Hugh Hefnar and he can. Myself, like many men at the age(or when we get there) won't have that same luxury. I don't think dating women in a range I'm not generally attracted to because I can't get the ones I really want counts as evolving my preferences. That's settling
Your tastes will change. Honest. I promise. I like looking at 21yo guys. But, date one or even have sex with one?
Hell no.
And you must bear in mind that my husband is 13 years younger than me. I started dating him when he was 24 and I was 37. We married when I was 42 and he was 29. We've been married almost 3 years, together for over 7.
TRUST ME. Your preferences do evolve. Hugh Hefner bangs whatever chicks he has handy. He's always had a wide age range. And he's Hugh Hefner. There's really nobody else quite like him in terms of available booty.
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