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Another thread equating lack of attractiveness to overweight. That often has nothing to do with it. Average-looking isn't enough. There are loads of average-looking people (yes, who are trim, have good grooming, and dress at least decently, some dress stylishly) who can't get anywhere with dating. This post is so overly-simplistic, it's useless as advice.
You are missing what I am saying, I already said many times that you shouldn't put in the extra work in your appearance solely for the opposite sex or to get dates but for YOURSELF. This country has an obesity epidemic we can't no longer tolerate all this pc sensitivity to make people feel better. If people are so open in denouncing being anorexia as being unhealthy and unattractive why can't with obesity or excessive fat? Neither is attractive or healthy.
The majority of people are lazy these days and are quick to let themselves go. I strongly believe though if everyone put in a good effort in dieting, styling, and grooming most people could be at least average looking. Just look at Europe and Brazil for example, same genetics basically the only difference is they weigh less and dress better therefor look better then the average american. With the amount of european stock most people are mixed with I actually think if people got into shape we could be considered one of the best looking nations in the world. As the russian saying goes,"no such thing as an ugly women only a lazy." This of course also applies to men. What do you think?
I think you are a shallow young lady probably in your 20s somewhere, who looks critically at anyone who hasn't combed their hair or got a coordinated outfit, because you simply cannot yet understand that some people struggle to get out of bed every morning and get through the day, let alone co-ordinate themselves to please YOU and your ilk.
Time will take care of this issue, possibly pregnancy and some wild eyed children exhausted when you pick them up from day care after a long hard day at the office and screaming and vomiting on your colour coordinated outfit because they ate crayons, the red ones of course.
The majority of people are lazy these days and are quick to let themselves go. I strongly believe though if everyone put in a good effort in dieting, styling, and grooming most people could be at least average looking. Just look at Europe and Brazil for example, same genetics basically the only difference is they weigh less and dress better therefor look better then the average american. With the amount of european stock most people are mixed with I actually think if people got into shape we could be considered one of the best looking nations in the world. As the russian saying goes,"no such thing as an ugly women only a lazy." This of course also applies to men. What do you think?
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Originally Posted by MissLadyLexi25
You are missing what I am saying, I already said many times that you shouldn't put in the extra work in your appearance solely for the opposite sex or to get dates but for YOURSELF. This country has an obesity epidemic we can't no longer tolerate all this pc sensitivity to make people feel better. If people are so open in denouncing being anorexia as being unhealthy and unattractive why can't with obesity or excessive fat? Neither is attractive or healthy.
What's sad is that the obesity epidemic in this country has gotten so bad that people think that just by being at a healthy weight you can be considered relatively attractive compared to your peer group, and what's sadder is that they are broadly correct.
What's sad is that the obesity epidemic in this country has gotten so bad that people think that just by being at a healthy weight you can be considered relatively attractive compared to your peer group, and what's sadder is that they are broadly correct.
I think you are a shallow young lady probably in your 20s somewhere, who looks critically at anyone who hasn't combed their hair or got a coordinated outfit, because you simply cannot yet understand that some people struggle to get out of bed every morning and get through the day, let alone co-ordinate themselves to please YOU and your ilk.
Time will take care of this issue, possibly pregnancy and some wild eyed children exhausted when you pick them up from day care after a long hard day at the office and screaming and vomiting on your colour coordinated outfit because they ate crayons, the red ones of course.
I don't think you understand what I am trying to say here. I don't feel like repeating myself, but I recommend you read the whole eight page thread to get what I and others mean. I know being a mother is hard especially if you have to work long hours, I can just look at my sister for an example.
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