Why are Black ladies worth "less" in the dating world? (carry, elections)
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Me personally I dont think black women are worthless i the dating world. Like any women black women are desired. Black women from what I o serve and experience dont have no problem finding a man, to be with, to hold, to sleep with, to have someone fathet their kid or kids, the hard part is walking down the aisle and heading to court to pick up the marriage liscense. Me personally I dont do great with Black women due to lack of swag and wall of lists. Generally black women prefer to be with black men, black women are highly religious and spiritual its part of their African America tradition however American Africans, Afro Latinos and Afro Anglo Caribbean women may differ and more open minded than their African American female counter parts. Sad thing about Black women here is that they have an entitlement list just like their white female counterparts called dont settle for anything less, dont date a man with kids even though she is on child number 2 or dont date a guy below 5 ft 10 inches even thougb she is 5 7 or date a guy with muscles while zhe is still a bbw. These women can find a man but no ring on their finger. I have notice some black women stepping out of their bubble and popping it for good, many are educated with degree or two and are dating or in relationships with men of all colors. Just today here in Manhattan I saw a black woman hand in hand with a East Asian American man, a rare sight to behold. I like Black women and I find black women attractive, but I dont do well with black women, due to entitlement, many in my area are ghetto single moms, great to look at, I would have to spend lots of time to covert them out of the hood mentality. Their is morw to wine than just drinking moscato.
This is really about socioeconomic standing. Let's be honest, the majority of black people that you come in contact with are uncultured and low-income. Since you reside in the "hood," these are the women that you are exposed to.
I just wish that people would stop using the characteristics of low income "uncultured" blacks as representative of the entire black American population. You do realize that middle/upper income blacks do not reside in the hood, and do not (generally) suffer from the same pathologies as low income people.
If you visit Appalachia, you'll find plenty of backwards white people. I'm sure however, that you wouldn't make blanket statements about all white people, based on your encounter with low income whites. You would be far more likely to state, "low income whites are backwards," instead of stating, "whites are backwards."
If you want to meet intelligent, beautiful and charismatic black women, you have to stop frequenting hip hop clubs/lounges, and other places with uncultured people. Attend a broadway play or musical, or visit the local library, bookstore, poetry recitation, or "meet-up" hiking event. Remember, like attracts like.
I went on a date a date with a 38 year old Russian-American guy who (I learned after the fact) still lived at home and didn't have a real job (part time job "fixing stuff"). He was a real winner. The best part of the story is that I learned he lived at home because I called the number he gave me, which was a landline and not a cell, and his mother picked up. I had to apologize for calling so late (it was 11pm). Needless to say, that marked the end of our brief courtship. The other two Russian guys that I dated were considerably more established and not even slightly racist. Seems EnzyteBob has been drinking the Klan Kool-Aid
1. I'm not Russian.
2. It is not uncommon for European offspring to live with their parents until they marry. Italy and everywhere east of there has those traditions.
3. They could have been Jews.
4. Maybe they just heard black women were easy.
5. What do you expect them to say? Like they're going to call you some name on a date?
You won't find me socializing w/ people that I abhor. If you hate blacks, why are you spending so much time conversing with us?
I don't hate you at all ... just a combination of internet smack talk and actually interested in the discussion. If you want to hear some patronizing answer, you're not going to get it from me.
This is really about socioeconomic standing. Let's be honest, the majority of black people that you come in contact with are uncultured and low-income. Since you reside in the "hood," these are the women that you are exposed to.
I just wish that people would stop using the characteristics of low income "uncultured" blacks as representative of the entire black American population. You do realize that middle/upper income blacks do not reside in the hood, and do not (generally) suffer from the same pathologies as low income people.
If you visit Appalachia, you'll find plenty of backwards white people. I'm sure however, that you wouldn't make blanket statements about all white people, based on your encounter with low income whites. You would be far more likely to state, "low income whites are backwards," instead of stating, "whites are backwards."
If you want to meet intelligent, beautiful and charismatic black women, you have to stop frequenting hip hop clubs/lounges, and other places with uncultured people. Attend a broadway play or musical, or visit the local library, bookstore, poetry recitation, or "meet-up" hiking event. Remember, like attracts like.
You should, because you are LaToya the beautician, Tangilique the government employee or LaQuesia the baby momma and not a Rothschild!
Are you really such a nimrod that all you can do is come into a thread like this and regurgitate statistics, general bulls**t, and hot air, and throw out silly little stereotypical insults at people like Calipoppy, who most likely has more class in her left pinkie than you do in your whole excuse for a body?
For the better part of the last ohhhh 10-15 pages give or take a few, you've run off at the mouth with stuff you know good and well you don't have the spinal cord or stones to say to someone's face, out loud, and in public
And for you to throw out the name 'Rothschild'? Please...the only Rothschild you know is probaly Lary Rothschild, who happens to be a pretty decent Major League pitching coach, and who would probably laugh in your face if he ever met you
Just so you know---black folk in this thread, and in America proper, don't want, need, or require, your blessing about a dang thing...and if you ever DID by some chance meet a LaToya, a Tangilique, or a LaQuesia, they'd probably put their heads together and have a good laugh, then tell you all about your 'shortcomings'...
Quit trying to denigrate other folk, and name-dropping Rothschilds, when we all know you're probably typing from a root cellar somewhere, complete with a well-worn, sticky-paged stack of porno mags, strategically placed bottles of warm water, hollowed out room-temperature fruit, and a closet full of blow-up Susie dolls with life-like body parts---y'know, the standard equipment for those who can't get a girl, and make up screen names on chat forums to make themselves look big
This is really about socioeconomic standing. Let's be honest, the majority of black people that you come in contact with are uncultured and low-income. Since you reside in the "hood," these are the women that you are exposed to.
I just wish that people would stop using the characteristics of low income "uncultured" blacks as representative of the entire black American population. You do realize that middle/upper income blacks do not reside in the hood, and do not (generally) suffer from the same pathologies as low income people.
If you visit Appalachia, you'll find plenty of backwards white people. I'm sure however, that you wouldn't make blanket statements about all white people, based on your encounter with low income whites. You would be far more likely to state, "low income whites are backwards," instead of stating, "whites are backwards."
If you want to meet intelligent, beautiful and charismatic black women, you have to stop frequenting hip hop clubs/lounges, and other places with uncultured people. Attend a broadway play or musical, or visit the local library, bookstore, poetry recitation, or "meet-up" hiking event. Remember, like attracts like.
This is really about socioeconomic standing. Let's be honest, the majority of black people that you come in contact with are uncultured and low-income. Since you reside in the "hood," these are the women that you are exposed to.
I just wish that people would stop using the characteristics of low income "uncultured" blacks as representative of the entire black American population. You do realize that middle/upper income blacks do not reside in the hood, and do not (generally) suffer from the same pathologies as low income people.
If you visit Appalachia, you'll find plenty of backwards white people. I'm sure however, that you wouldn't make blanket statements about all white people, based on your encounter with low income whites. You would be far more likely to state, "low income whites are backwards," instead of stating, "whites are backwards."
If you want to meet intelligent, beautiful and charismatic black women, you have to stop frequenting hip hop clubs/lounges, and other places with uncultured people. Attend a broadway play or musical, or visit the local library, bookstore, poetry recitation, or "meet-up" hiking event. Remember, like attracts like.
This is so true. If you only used TV sit-com stereotypes most black women would indeed to be bossy jive-talkin' emasculating brtchs. It's more true that black women run the gamut from hood-rat to super-classy. I'd only say that I've observed generally that black women I've dated (including one who is now my wife) are more independent, feel less entitled (not more) to get "welfare" from their man, and just generally able to take care of themselves and their children without a man than the average little spoiled white princess. (OK OK, before all the white women write, I know many of you have also overcome incredible obstacles. i'm just sayin' STATISTICALLY... probably more black women have had to do it all, given being more likely to be born in poverty and not having an educated help-mate with a good job). My wife earned an engineering degree from a good eastern university while playing center on the varsity basketball team with torn cartliledge in her knee- couldn't quit or lose her scholarship. She became a manager at a major hospital. Despite being a supervisor she's the most soft-spoken person I know and couldn't speak ebonics if you put a gun to her head. I can fake it much better and entertain her with it. :-) Plus she doesn't have a nose all over her face, but a nice aqualine one much like mine.
I think the OP never met more than two or three black women and those were some hoodies when he was looking in the ghetto to score some weed.
Last edited by bamba_boy; 01-26-2013 at 04:52 AM..
EnzyteBob--
Blacks in this country weren't exactly given a great "head start" in this land of opportunity. Unless you call slavery some form of an apprenticeship program. I am always fascinated by people getting up in arms about illegal immigration in the USA. If someone wants to show me the formal process that white people (my ancestors) went through to set ups shop here I am Ross Perot. All ears.
Fast forward, and it took civil rights protests in the 60's for significant progress to be made. Unfortunately, while blacks, and most middle class americans, were trying to work and enjoy a decent living, the powers that be, OLD WHITE GUYS, were busily figuring out ways to line their pockets. Read: top 2%. This was done by offshoring jobs and declaring war on the unions starting at about 1980. This harmed blacks the most due to fewer job openings.
Next up, the war on drugs. Since we don't manufacture anything we had to employ people somehow. What better way to do it than to shove morals down peoples throats. You mentioned the lack of drug use and whorish behavior in europe. I give you Amsterdam. The war on drugs in the US is nothing more than a war on blacks. Check out our prison industrial complex. However, if we set up red light districts in every major city and taxed these activities, WE WOULDN'T HAVE A NATIONAL DEBT. You know what we call the CIA on the west coast? The cocaine importing agency. They drop the drugs in the black neighborhoods then come back and make arrests.
A lot of people in the US are struggling. Instead of financing morals and wars we would be better served to live and let live and go back to a strong manufacturing base. Strong economies make for strong families.
You mentioned the large black democratic voting base. Have you taken a look at the last 2 elections in this country? Also, last I checked we have a black president. What I am getting at is that it isn't just blacks voting democrat anymore. I am a 50 year old white guy and I am a confirmed democrat due to the "unmasking" that the GOP has engaged in the last 4 years. You posted how you look out for YOUR interests. Well, others are going to look out for theirs. This includes accepting a $400 check. I know. I was one of those people. And I had been working since I was 12.
This is really about socioeconomic standing. Let's be honest, the majority of black people that you come in contact with are uncultured and low-income. Since you reside in the "hood," these are the women that you are exposed to.
I just wish that people would stop using the characteristics of low income "uncultured" blacks as representative of the entire black American population. You do realize that middle/upper income blacks do not reside in the hood, and do not (generally) suffer from the same pathologies as low income people.
If you visit Appalachia, you'll find plenty of backwards white people. I'm sure however, that you wouldn't make blanket statements about all white people, based on your encounter with low income whites. You would be far more likely to state, "low income whites are backwards," instead of stating, "whites are backwards."
If you want to meet intelligent, beautiful and charismatic black women, you have to stop frequenting hip hop clubs/lounges, and other places with uncultured people. Attend a broadway play or musical, or visit the local library, bookstore, poetry recitation, or "meet-up" hiking event. Remember, like attracts like.
Not even just there. They are all over the place. It's laughable to me how some people, particularly White Americans, like to stereotype people of African descent and others. There's likely the same percentage of their populations who is just straight ghetto. I've seen them having curse out matches in stores, loud and yelling at the children, looking highly unkempt...and so many of them are very lazy and have the biggest sense of entitlement. The sense of entitlement encompasses not just those who are ghetto.
It amazes me how so many White Americans like to talk about African-Americans being lazy and having a sense of entitlement when they have had far more opportunities that African-Americans generally speaking. So many of them have been here 3-4 generations or more, yet their families aren't even well educated. Why? There was no mass oppression in their case.
So many recent Africans/African descendants come here and pass them by in terms of success in one generation/two generations, myself included. Same with Asians and Asian descendants. Yet so White Americans would rather complain than get up and do some hard work. So over it.
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