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Old 08-13-2009, 02:20 PM
 
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Dear Marilyn,
I know you said that this thread is closed, but I hope you check in just to see how much your thread & your life has touched this forum.

I sat here and reread your posts. My eyes welled up with tears.
Then I clicked on the song that Mike0241 posted called "Heaven Laughs" and after reading the lyrics, the tears are rolling down my face.

It is so sad what happened to your Mother and to you. Be strong and if it gives you a little comfort, listen to the song.

"And heaven laughs when we say good-bye
It ain't so far to the other side
Someday soon we will meet again
Say it over and over and over 'til then

Dream tonight about a last embrace
Close my eyes and I will see your face
Dreams alone won't keep our tears away
But in my heart I know we'll meet again someday"
ohh its touching that your so emotional over this, and that I touched so many however now it a time to feel happy! My mom is at peace, its over, all the pain is over. I honestly feel in my heart now is a time to praise joyous song in our hearts and to the heavens. This was just plain terrible when cancer was all over and I saw all the pain meds and ruins of sickness in the home that my poor dad and her suffered thru it showed me thats the sadness, we need to be happy now and have good memories. Dont cry, cry for joy. It was pretty terrible the last 3 days. Thanks and thats really really really touching of you. To be honest, right now Im afraid to go back and read those posts. What POSSESSED YOU, do you like more torture????
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Old 08-13-2009, 02:21 PM
 
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LISTEN, im GETTING SCARED!! Im getting scared that we are going to beat the unemployment thread in length. Thats when you know your in trouble when it beats the unemployment thread!! (JOKE)
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Old 08-13-2009, 02:50 PM
 
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My sympathy to you and your father. Your mom is at rest now, may she rest in peace.
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Old 08-13-2009, 03:38 PM
 
Location: new jersey
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marilyn,
you are amazing and i have so much respect and admiration for you. you and your family have my deepest sympathy and i know your mom is at peace now. she is the joy and love in your heart and i'm sure she would want you to celebrate her life and not mourn her passing of that f-ing disease!
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Old 08-13-2009, 04:20 PM
 
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LISTEN, im GETTING SCARED!! Im getting scared that we are going to beat the unemployment thread in length. Thats when you know your in trouble when it beats the unemployment thread!! (JOKE)
you are too funny
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Old 08-13-2009, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Sunshine N'Blue Skies
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I skipped from page 13 to the last page here ( so far) 20 and I had a sigh that the pain is " all over with".......
You had good strengh. You were there so much of the time.......and I know myself how hard that is.
Bless you and your Dad......and all those wonderful memories do make one smile along the years.....
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Old 08-13-2009, 06:00 PM
 
Location: NJ/FL
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A Happy Tune


YouTube - Israel Kamakawiwo'Ole 'IZ' 'Somewhere Over The Rainbow' HQ


Hugs
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:26 AM
 
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This blog is officially closed.
My mom passed away alittle while ago. Yes your were right, it still hurts, however this whole damn nightmare is over!

Thanks everyone here for listening, all the prayers, everything.

Your people were a great source of comfort to me.
Marilyn
Marilyn,

My condolences for the passing of your Mom.

May she rest in peace and hopefully she's in a much much better place.

It'll take some time I guess for your pain to subside.

Life goes onward.

Stay calm and take care.

njguy
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:26 AM
 
Location: In My Own Little World. . .
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Marilyn, from what I've seen no matter how old you are, you feel like an orphan when your mom dies.

You'll have a lot of conflicting feelings over the next few days and weeks. But the worst is over now.

My sympathy for your loss. Stay strong, friend.
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:36 AM
 
Location: NJ
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my sympathies to you and your family for the loss of your mother. I too lost a parent less than two years ago and understand what you are going through.
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