Should I be upset about this?

[StilltheSame]

Sound of Reason- I get where your irritation comes from- you are close as family for some events, but not others? That doesnt feel good. Also it is hard being alone and feeling
lost in a move, so I dont fault your thinking. I do however believe you need to let time pass and make your decision on how to handle it when you have had time.

[animalcrazy]

I would just let it go as well. How about broadening your horizons and having a lot more friends. I'm in the same boat with having no family ties. I do however have a lot of good people in my life. Less is not more in this case. What about a significant other?

[purehuman]

Originally Posted by Sound_of_Reason

no, this is incorrect. I have had many roommates from college and just in life in general. My current roommates family knows my family so there is a connection there. He has become my best friend but not because I wanted him to be, it just happened. He doesn't really hang out with a lot of people and neither do I so, I guess we just hang with each other haha.

And yes he goes and does his own thing too

Your current room mate sounds like a good friend....try to keep in mind Sound_of_Reason, (I'm not trying to be unsympathetic here) that YOU are responsible for making your life happy and content...no-one else.