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Old 04-08-2013, 12:18 PM
 
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This is where I drop the "y'all".
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Old 04-08-2013, 12:41 PM
 
Location: Nort Seid
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Funny, Citydata suggested I check this out - and yes, referring to a group of people as "you guys" is definitely common in Chicago. No idea how, why or when it started, but I was in my 30s before someone actually pointed out to me it's kind of a bizarre Chicago thing.

There's definitely no malice whatsoever in it, I suppose it is considered a less formal way of saying "you people" or "you folks," and a Chicagoan saying "y'all" comes off as just a wee bit pretentious.
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Old 04-08-2013, 12:43 PM
 
Location: At the corner of happy and free
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I find that sad that our country has come to that point.
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I do think the root meaning of a word trumps all other meanings, because it does. <snip> It is really what the word means and always has meant.
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My 1987 dictionary lists this as the Origin, so your probably is not right.
So, using your logic, I shall close by calling you terrific, and not at all awful.
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Old 04-08-2013, 04:00 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Guys comes from effigies of Guy Fawkes. My 1987 dictionary lists this as the Origin, so your probably is not right.

Guy is a separate word that means "to guide." The thread question is about "guys."
Wow. Major denial going on here. Can't talk sense to someone who refuses to see reason.
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Old 04-08-2013, 04:05 PM
 
Location: Florida
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We say "y'all" down here.
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Old 04-08-2013, 04:22 PM
 
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Nope.

Call me anything-just be sure to call me for supper!
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Old 04-08-2013, 05:31 PM
 
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It doesn't bother me in the least.
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Old 04-09-2013, 08:12 AM
 
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Father to Son: Junior, there are two words I never want to hear you say. One is swell and the other is lousy.

Son to Father: Okay, Pop. What are they?

Guy, while I don't see it as a pejorative, is just an attempt to make everyday interactions informal. I think it's silly to call a group of women "guys", but I don't get my knickers in a twist about it.

I have never understood the need for "y'all". You is plural when addressing more than one person.

I see nothing wrong with addressing a group of females as "ladies".
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Old 04-09-2013, 08:40 AM
 
Location: "Daytonnati"
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Funny, Citydata suggested I check this out - and yes, referring to a group of people as "you guys" is definitely common in Chicago. No idea how, why or when it started, but I was in my 30s before someone actually pointed out to me it's kind of a bizarre Chicago thing.

Im a native Chicagoan, as was my father and grandfather (all lived in the same part of town too), and deffo..a localism. Sometimes, for the more older folks, its

"Youse Guys", or "Yooz Guys" .....adding the s sound at the end of the 'you'.


Gender has nothing to do with it. Groups of girls will refer to other girls as "youse guys" or "you guys".

Closest approximation is the southern 'Y'all".
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Old 04-09-2013, 11:00 AM
 
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too familiar and I'm not a "guy." I remember the first time I heard it was when my mother was with my friend and me on a trip to Florida and the very young waitress asked, "Hi, what can I get you guys?" My mother's expression was priceless, although she was much to polite to say anything to the young lady, I could tell she was insulted. Her eyebrows went up an inch---
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