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I always said, women are smarter then men, some of the few reasons why, I am a successful guy, lol. The ladies gave you good sound advice, be honest with your gf and tell her, you we're looking forward to a nice quiet get away with her and like one of the posters said, you feel uncomfortable being a third wheel.
Knight
Actually, I gave good advice and I am a guy.
I think it is awesome that the "girl friend" is taking a weekend with a married guy. Knowing he is married.
Sorry, but I do, I hope she is smokin hot!
But that is her business and not yours. Don't validate or be party to her poor behavior.
A good friend would not have put you in this position. I understand you maybe concerned about losing the friendship, but you should ask yourself, "Do I really want to be friends with some one with questionable morals and character?" She's sleeping with a married man--not really my kind of person.
Exactly, this isn't a friend.
And as the old saying goes "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me".
Call the dude's wife and see what she's up to that weekend.
There you go. Hang with the wife of the married man. Sounds like she'll be free to hang out with. lol. Sounds like Vegas is about to get a lot more interesting if that's even possible.
Assumptions run amuck. Is it not sufficient that your opinion may not be that of others?
That's rudely harsh and judgmental in and of itself. Why are you taking this issue so personally and getting yourself all wound up about it? Such moral outrage!
I'm not so sure you do agree with stan4 as the second sentence contradicts that poster's opinion.
How is it an opinion that the topic would once again arise?
That is not an opinion. It is a prediction.
I am wound up bc we have taken tolerance so far that we tolerate *anything*...which is fine until you realize that your standards for who you choose to be friends with is in the toilet.
Silence is not only consent, but it makes you complicit in the behavior.
Just tell her how you feel and if she's a true friend, she'll understand.
If she doesn't understand, you need to ask yourself why you need friends like her.
Free your mind ! Life's too short to wallow in misery.
Now I really don't want to go anymore and I know she will be disappointed, but it just isn't a situation that I want to put myself in.
That's exactly what you should tell her: that you disagree with the situation. It sounds like a recipe for drama, and I don't blame you for wanting to avoid drama.
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